....*sighs*
people try to help. but, the honest fact is that they can't help w/out first understanding. and, they can't understand if they won't listen.
and--you can't listen if you're criticizing and putting us down. if you don't take the time, and actually put the effort into CARING enough [and actually SHOWING it], you'll get the story, and the reasons behind things.
but...by just saying bad things about it, it doesn't help ANYTHING. and, i mean ANY-THING. the only thing that it does...is, make things worse.
so--if you think you're helping...think again. and if you want to help--just LISTEN, be there, but dont go say stuff about it...no matter how much you may disagree with it. cuz, it's not what you think--it's what we think. you dont have to like it...but, just accept it...
and--you can't listen if you're criticizing and putting us down. if you don't take the time, and actually put the effort into CARING enough [and actually SHOWING it], you'll get the story, and the reasons behind things.
but...by just saying bad things about it, it doesn't help ANYTHING. and, i mean ANY-THING. the only thing that it does...is, make things worse.
so--if you think you're helping...think again. and if you want to help--just LISTEN, be there, but dont go say stuff about it...no matter how much you may disagree with it. cuz, it's not what you think--it's what we think. you dont have to like it...but, just accept it...