(no subject)
This makes it 3 times. 3 times in 6 months girls have accused me of sleeping with their boyfriends. This is getting quite comical. CAN I NOT BE FRIENDS WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX ANYMORE? Apparently not. But I guess they all have very good reasons for thinking this. I mean yes I was these guys friends and yes I knew they liked me, but I can't help it. Its not my fault that their boyfriends call me all the time and blatantly do nice things for me in public. I'm sorry if your boyfriend made it clear that he likes me. In two of the cases these guys had a crush on me before they met these girls. I didn't want either of them. If I did, I would be the one dating them right now. But seriously I am not that type of girl, and anyone who comes in contact with me knows that. I can't even think about liking a guy if I know they have a girlfriend. But of course these girls don't blame the source they take the easiest way out and put all of their anger and resentment on me. Why would they break up with the guys who have tried to cheat (in some cases HAVE multiple times) on them?? To most people this seems logical. I just don't understand why this stuff happens to me.
I even told *he who can not be named* that even though him and his girlfriend are not officially together that it was a bad idea that we were so close. He laughed it off. I told him that girls are crazy and that she would find out about our friendship and because he kept it a secret she would not understand. He laughed it off. Then I get a phone call......
her - Who is this?
me - uhhh Ra******. Who is this?
her - Why does your name appear all the time on his cell phone, and why does he have birthday cards from you?
me - *he who can not be named* and I have been friends for a couple of years and we are only friends.
blahh blahh blahh
Basically she made him delete myspace and promise to never call me again. Well his phone was cut off so he can't call me, but that does not stop him from IMing me.
I will not go into the other two examples because some people are affiliated with the parties involved.
This whole thing is just so dumb. The only male that I will continue to hang out with is Matt. Everyone else is cut off. Even if you are single you probably have an ex that will accuse me of trying to take you away.
Girls here is a hint.................If your boyfriend cheats on you (especially more than once) there is a 75% chance that he is going to do it again. Have more respect for yourself and don't put up with that shit. And for the girls who are involved with taken men...uhh yeah, and you think he is going to be faithful to you once he breaks it off with his girlfriend??? No, he won't.
I am a super nice person and I hold the golden rule very dear.
I even told *he who can not be named* that even though him and his girlfriend are not officially together that it was a bad idea that we were so close. He laughed it off. I told him that girls are crazy and that she would find out about our friendship and because he kept it a secret she would not understand. He laughed it off. Then I get a phone call......
her - Who is this?
me - uhhh Ra******. Who is this?
her - Why does your name appear all the time on his cell phone, and why does he have birthday cards from you?
me - *he who can not be named* and I have been friends for a couple of years and we are only friends.
blahh blahh blahh
Basically she made him delete myspace and promise to never call me again. Well his phone was cut off so he can't call me, but that does not stop him from IMing me.
I will not go into the other two examples because some people are affiliated with the parties involved.
This whole thing is just so dumb. The only male that I will continue to hang out with is Matt. Everyone else is cut off. Even if you are single you probably have an ex that will accuse me of trying to take you away.
Girls here is a hint.................If your boyfriend cheats on you (especially more than once) there is a 75% chance that he is going to do it again. Have more respect for yourself and don't put up with that shit. And for the girls who are involved with taken men...uhh yeah, and you think he is going to be faithful to you once he breaks it off with his girlfriend??? No, he won't.
I am a super nice person and I hold the golden rule very dear.