hello friends! It's been quite a while since the last time I updated. To summary what had happened in my life in the past few days here are they
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1.An affair with a married man is interesting in some way. You don't have to share a household use with him. He comes to you being clean, shaved, smelling good, he doesn't make you visit his ugly mother, you don't have to hear his snoring in the night. He doesn't disturb you- he comes to you to love you and to drink your love- to drink a magic cocktail of your love. It can last years. But the most special side of such relationship is that it doesn't have future. Relationship for relationship- no plans, no dreams, no kids, no christmas and birthdays together. And you never can feel that he is only yours, you haven't a right even to ask him to stay over. And he lies- every time when he is with you he is a lier- and you hear how he answers his cell and speaks 'yes honey, I'll be late tonight, don't wait for me to a dinner, yeah, it is a damny work...' And one day you'll be sick of it. And this relationship will get over- exactly in the moment when the opportunity of the present gets over and further is only future which you to don't have. And it is painful. I know- I was in it:) There are some cases when he leaves his wife for a mistress, but it doesn't happen often. And having got him you can be never sure that he will not lie to you for somebody else. It is valuable experience, it can give you a lot of pleasant minutes, oceans of passion, mountains of roses, billions of kisses and loving words. But this coin has and another side and you should make a decision of you are ready to it - before your going into this
2.a. keep your privacy off colleges! Take it as a golden rule. They are joking, teasing you to somebody, but you can never know what they really think, want and what they will do further. One my college and ex-friend some time ago tried to incite one man to me. We became pals with him, no more, and I'm lucky. Because as it appeared later, she loved this man very much, not mutual, and if her idea to incite him to me had a success, she would hate me as much as she loved him. Don't trust your privacy to colleges, especially if your sweetheart is your college too (!!!). Don't discuss it with them, it can be danger and painful at least.
2.b. It is YOUR privacy, it is nobody's business. Whatever you do, whoever you love, whoever you sleep with- no one of officemates and so on has a right to estimate it.
There are some cases when he leaves his wife for a mistress, but it doesn't happen often. And having got him you can be never sure that he will not lie to you for somebody else. It is valuable experience, it can give you a lot of pleasant minutes, oceans of passion, mountains of roses, billions of kisses and loving words. But this coin has and another side and you should make a decision of you are ready to it - before your going into this
2.a. keep your privacy off colleges! Take it as a golden rule. They are joking, teasing you to somebody, but you can never know what they really think, want and what they will do further. One my college and ex-friend some time ago tried to incite one man to me. We became pals with him, no more, and I'm lucky. Because as it appeared later, she loved this man very much, not mutual, and if her idea to incite him to me had a success, she would hate me as much as she loved him. Don't trust your privacy to colleges, especially if your sweetheart is your college too (!!!). Don't discuss it with them, it can be danger and painful at least.
2.b. It is YOUR privacy, it is nobody's business. Whatever you do, whoever you love, whoever you sleep with- no one of officemates and so on has a right to estimate it.
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you're right. :)
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