Following Phish's lead ...
I appear to be another Jessie-non-friend. Not that this hasn't been coming down the road since Jessie almost didn't come to my wedding because she was fighting with a boy. Hmmm. Despite that fact, and the fact that her boyfriend seemed determine to break her in every way and this didn't phase her, I remained friends with Jessie.
Until she felt the need to deeply violate mine and other's privacy with an act that is not only dispicable but also illegal and ridiculous. Certainly, when you dig into someone else's personal writings, you are likely to find something hurtful. BUT - I stand by all that I said, as a means to try and assist Jessie to see everything that was going wrong at the time those emails are written. Phish and I discussed Jessie as to how the best way would be to HELP Jessie.
The lies have got to stop, Jess. One way or the other. You've told a lot of people a lot of conflicting stories and that's not a great way to go through life. And my one last wish for you is that you actually take some time to figure who you are outside of every relationship! I wish you the best in life and hope that everything will work out. I hope all your dreams come true.
Editted to add one last thought - interestingly enough, direct communication can solve so many problems. Isn't that amazing? Before the annonymous posts on the internet, before everything else (preferably before HACKING INTO SOMETHING) TALK to your friends about what's bothering you. Maybe you can work it out without resorting to ridiculous, snarky high school behavior. I'm so sick of all this frickin' drama though. Have a terrific life.
Until she felt the need to deeply violate mine and other's privacy with an act that is not only dispicable but also illegal and ridiculous. Certainly, when you dig into someone else's personal writings, you are likely to find something hurtful. BUT - I stand by all that I said, as a means to try and assist Jessie to see everything that was going wrong at the time those emails are written. Phish and I discussed Jessie as to how the best way would be to HELP Jessie.
The lies have got to stop, Jess. One way or the other. You've told a lot of people a lot of conflicting stories and that's not a great way to go through life. And my one last wish for you is that you actually take some time to figure who you are outside of every relationship! I wish you the best in life and hope that everything will work out. I hope all your dreams come true.
Editted to add one last thought - interestingly enough, direct communication can solve so many problems. Isn't that amazing? Before the annonymous posts on the internet, before everything else (preferably before HACKING INTO SOMETHING) TALK to your friends about what's bothering you. Maybe you can work it out without resorting to ridiculous, snarky high school behavior. I'm so sick of all this frickin' drama though. Have a terrific life.