Jul 02, 2006 20:51
there are two friends that i really, really love that i haven't seen much lately. we'll call them friend a and friend b. friend a and friend b just broke up and it breaks my heart. it seemed like they were really commited to each other and i was the one who encouraged them to date in the first placed, because i thought they'd be good together. to see friend a cut loose friend b really makes me sad and i hope when some time passes friend a can explain to me what he's thinking, because it really seems to be unnecessary and random. i love friend a and friend b equally and i know that, in the long run, they'll still be friends. like seriously, friend a and friend b both have my respect because they've both been good friends to me and i know they both have good heads on their shoulders. but man, friend b is hurting so much and i just feel so sad for her... also, it's weird to see people who i thought were so good for each other, so sweet and so in love break up. what's amazing and deepens my respect for friend b is all the strength she is showing and how, even when utterly heart broken, she can be so dignified and respectful to friend a. also, even totally heart broken, she is still so nice to be around and so thoughtful. earlier today, john and i went to her apartment to talk with her and give her lots of hugs. then we took her out for ice cream because, hey, if you can't get free ice cream when you get dumped, then when can you?
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