Mar 31, 2005 22:59
Some people contest that you never really know what you had until it's gone. I am in total agreement this week.
After telling people how I really felt and what I really thought of them, my whole whole is lighter and looks brighter. Should've told people off waayyyy sooner. I never really looked at what and who people were, until I was able to let them go. You should really appreciate people for everything they are worth. Some people were worth more to me as they walked away than when they came into my life.
Honestly, this whole trying to state things nicely takes a lot more than it's worth. Total honesty is the best policy...that tempered by love will change your life. Having some boundaries set up will make your life easier to live. They help you decide when to say yes and no. It's fine to say n...in fact...it can be better than saying yes.
Ever had trouble letting go...trust me...it's easier to let go now than later.