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Please if you could... explain this to me...
QUESTION:When one person messes up...is it not their JOB to take RESPONSIBILITY for their actions...?
ANSWER: If they did something WONDERFUL would they not claim it to be their own? People tend to TAKE the good they can...and BLAME others for what they want to DISREGAURD... When an act is commmited it should be claimed...especially if its your OWN ACTION! No more of this... YOU PUSHED ME TO IT...IT WAS YOUR FAULT...YOU FORGOT ABOUT ME...YOU DONT CARE...YOU DONT KNO WHERE I'VE BEEN AND WHERE I'VE CAME FROM!!! That's LAME! Fess UP! Take some RESPONSIBILITY! Everything isn't given to you...sometimes you have to WORK at things JUST to make them turn out OK...it's not ever going to be PERFECT either...there is NO such thing! So what if people DONT KNOW what you are going through...does it matter? It's your own life and own descions...it shouldnt be about them understanding! Get will power and fight your urges to do what you KNOW you shouldn't. And if "secretly" you WANT to do those things BECAUSE you think LIFE WILL BE EASIER...then go ahead...BUT Make Sure you KNOW why your doing them...and just be honest to yourself! Help is ALWAYS there...
QUESTION:When one person messes up...is it not their JOB to take RESPONSIBILITY for their actions...?
ANSWER: If they did something WONDERFUL would they not claim it to be their own? People tend to TAKE the good they can...and BLAME others for what they want to DISREGAURD... When an act is commmited it should be claimed...especially if its your OWN ACTION! No more of this... YOU PUSHED ME TO IT...IT WAS YOUR FAULT...YOU FORGOT ABOUT ME...YOU DONT CARE...YOU DONT KNO WHERE I'VE BEEN AND WHERE I'VE CAME FROM!!! That's LAME! Fess UP! Take some RESPONSIBILITY! Everything isn't given to you...sometimes you have to WORK at things JUST to make them turn out OK...it's not ever going to be PERFECT either...there is NO such thing! So what if people DONT KNOW what you are going through...does it matter? It's your own life and own descions...it shouldnt be about them understanding! Get will power and fight your urges to do what you KNOW you shouldn't. And if "secretly" you WANT to do those things BECAUSE you think LIFE WILL BE EASIER...then go ahead...BUT Make Sure you KNOW why your doing them...and just be honest to yourself! Help is ALWAYS there...