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[loveisanitemare]

He lied to me. Quite simply, when none of the emails worked, I actually looked at the postmaster's email thingy, and it gave a link to Stanford's "Who's Who", and I typed in his name to get the email address. There is no Max Pearson at Stanford. Nor is there anyone with a name close. Which means he lied either about his name, or the school. I’d

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[daimyofury]

When I said overly optimistic, I was talking about how you thoroughly thought out what would happen, where he would come home from work, and what your house setup would be, and how many kids you would have, and stuff like that. To think that you would spend the rest of your life with someone that you talk to online mostly, and is your first real boyfriend, is utterly ridiculous. If you had been going out for a year, that's one thing. But how long was it? A few months?

And as far as giving opinions. If you expected us to keep our mouths shut entirely, you should never have told us the story in the first place. If you didn't want people's opinions, you should have just kept this to yourself. Telling someone the story, even if they're the one asking about it, is basically asking for their input, even if it goes unsaid.

And you are blind to the possibilities. You obviously still 100% believe everything that he said in that email, when I think that part of it wasn't true. I'm almost positive at least part of it wasn't true, knowing human nature. It doesn't make any sense as to why he would do that, then cut off all communication.

And I don't know how emails can get bounced back to you. They can if the email never existed in the first place, but a hotmail account can't be deleted... It just doesn't happen. It would have to go unused for six months or something, then hotmail deletes it, and you obviously knew his email address worked before that, so I don't even know how that worked. They would have just been sent, then sat unread in his inbox.

I'm not saying you have to love someone else right now. I'm saying you have to at least make an effort to get over him. And he doesn't want you to have a say in what happened, if he so perfectly cut off all lines of communication with you, as hard as that is to believe.

And I do want what is best for you. Or shall I say I did. But you obviously think that I don't. So this is the end. Goodbye, Lauren. And I'm gonna give you a big ol' friendly "Fuck you" to end this friendship, for treating me like shit after just trying to help you for these past three months. A waste of my time, if you ask me.

[lilfroggie872]

Hey Lauren...

Josh is right, and I do have to agree with him. Well, not the ending the friendship part cuz I don't wanna do that, but the rest of it is.

He basically said everything I didn't cuz I knew you didn't wanna hear it so I kept my mouth shut. I know it hurts, you're not the only one who has been dumped before and you're gonna love other people.

Max is as asshole for what he did, I know that and I think everyone else does. But there is a time that you have to look past it and get over it, he's not worth being so upset over.

He's just a guy, honey.

~Jess~