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I'm so confused about seeing other people right now. I definately know that I don't want to be in a relationship. I have so much tied up frustration, anger, sadness and a lack of energy. But i do want to be sexually intimate with my friends, only if we will remain friends...something I'm worried about today. I want to feel that I can hang out with
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i was pretty uninterested in a relationship after my longterm break up early in the summer. not that any were knocking on my door, but yeah... then by the season's end, i delved into some physical fun with a couple strangers. it was alright, or even really good, for what it was but not exactly my sort of thing.
then about a month before i left on my trip, this "friends with benefits" topic came up with a friend of mine back in jersey. it played out just the other night and was quite splendorific and definitely felt like all those things you mentioned (healthy, nurturing, close). it just felt so great (in more ways than one) fulfilling needs and curiosities with someone that is so rad (ie. a good friend). and afterwards, there was nothing awkward or strange or anything bad like that. we were just both very happy & grateful.
of course, it's pretty easy for lines not to get blurred when it can only be a one-time thing since we live on opposite ends of the country, heh. anyway, best of luck to you!
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