Ascension and Descent

[culoslap]

I'm going to try my best to chronicle my efforts to ask out this girl I met at the gym. Normally I keep these things to myself for if failure calls me to the stage, I have an audience of none. I'm just looking for some female insight. Also posting this to my personal journal

Comments

[the_wild_ones]

Yah everything just feels off...

[the_wild_ones]

the she-nazi comment definitely rang my alarm as well. just reminds me of "nice" dudes who thinks that women should be interested just because they are nice. then freak out with misogynistic comments when women don't respond.

also "I'm not the kind of guy to fixate on getting a response." the length of the post kinda says otherwise.

[culoslap]

I was speaking in hyperbole about that particular moderator and it was a lack of respect for that particular woman and not all women. I understand it was petty and I was in the wrong but there was no need for her to be excessively rude to me. I've actually forgot about her already. In the the first paragraph, I wrote about seeking feminine insight.

I have not stated anything about getting to know her better. Since she told me she'd like to hear about my trip to Belize, I casually asked if she'd ever want to meet and tell her of it. I admit that I am dancing and I'm a terrible dancer. On top of that her and I don't always share the dance floor. At the gym I may keep with the pleasantries but if I walk her out I'll stop pussyfooting around and state my position. Thank you for the advice I do appreciate hearing a different point of view.

[tigress35]

Or that he wasn't interested in her looks but her "knowledge" which he implies he somehow knew before he even spoke to her.

Nothing wrong with being physically attracted to someone and getting to know them because of it, but it does set off he BS meter to insist you're going after someone for their intelligence before you've even talked to them.

[culoslap]

I was speaking of her knowledge of fitness. After slight observation, I could tell her fitness knowledge was well above average. Specifically her correct form and knowledge of how to attain her fitness goals. After speaking to her I found we graduated from the same college and she was looking to take the LSAT soon.