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My boyfriend and I have been having problems. We've only been together about 3 months now. I'm wondering if I should get out before they get worse, but at the same time since it's still a new relationship I keep thinking maybe we can work them out, and breaking up with him now would be too hasty. I'm torn.

He's very insecure, and wants to be together all the time, like 24/7. I need time to myself every once in a while, so I don't really understand that (plus I get the feeling that he likes me more than I like him). I try to be with him when I can, but I have school, and family commitments which he doesn't seem to get.

Sometimes he asks things that are really unreasonable, like one day he wanted me to stay out with him late, and I told him I couldn't because of when the buses by my house stop running (I can't afford a car right now, so I take the city buses everywhere). He said there was a bus that went by later and I'm like 'great! which one is it, and when does it run?'. Turns out he expected me to walk 2.5 miles home in the dark, just so I could stay out with him a couple hours later.

He also tries to tell me what we are doing without consulting me first, even after I've told him repeatedly that I really don't like people making plans that I'm supposed to follow along with, without consulting me.
Also, one day he told me he didn't want me to get fat, and tried to keep me from eating some crackers and cheese I was trying to have for a snack. (I'm 5' 8" and weigh 130 lbs. while I'm sure I could stand to lose a couple of pounds, I am by no means fat or even chubby.)

I know that I do things he doesn't like sometimes too, and am really beginning to think that I'm wasting my time. Like I said above, I'm torn.

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