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Hey bud. We don't really know each other, but I know all the Ottawa people you discussed there. I've also known others in similar situations, so I'm going to offer a bit of advice. It's yours to take or leave; keep in mind that it's ultimately your choice.
First, don't stay in an online relationship because you're worried that breaking it off will damper their well-being. Yes, it's nice to be considerate and sympathetic of other's disposition, but acting in self interest is not wrong here. If it's making YOU distraught, then it may be best to call it quits with this guy. Who knows - he could just be trying to string you along; it could all be fabricated, or at least exaggerated.
Second, try to relax a little. *heh* Yea, that's probably easy for me to say, but I think you need to let loose a bit. Have a beer with a good neutral friend at a pub, play some videogames with Tia - just something that gets your mind off the boys you like and the boys that like you. Also remember that depression is a clinical disorder, so be careful when you use the word. I'd say you're sad and confused. From what I hear, you're a good and fun-loving guy; depressed people pretty hardly even smile. I think that if you get your mind off thinking you're depressed, you'll be able to break free from the slump.
I know that I'm not clinicly depressed, it's just the easiest word to use to describe how I felt... heh
as for the relaxing bit, I know.. I have a real bad habit of making a surprisingly simple situation into something complex. I think the point I was trying to get across was weither or not I should follow my heart and go after someone I know I like but might not like me back or go let someone I know likes me.... Ive never been in a relationship before... and.. I dunno.. Im just scared that id I make the wrong decision, I'll end up hurting the people I care about.
thanks for the reply though... best advice is to like you said just relax and let stuff happen.
First, don't stay in an online relationship because you're worried that breaking it off will damper their well-being. Yes, it's nice to be considerate and sympathetic of other's disposition, but acting in self interest is not wrong here. If it's making YOU distraught, then it may be best to call it quits with this guy. Who knows - he could just be trying to string you along; it could all be fabricated, or at least exaggerated.
Second, try to relax a little. *heh* Yea, that's probably easy for me to say, but I think you need to let loose a bit. Have a beer with a good neutral friend at a pub, play some videogames with Tia - just something that gets your mind off the boys you like and the boys that like you. Also remember that depression is a clinical disorder, so be careful when you use the word. I'd say you're sad and confused. From what I hear, you're a good and fun-loving guy; depressed people pretty hardly even smile. I think that if you get your mind off thinking you're depressed, you'll be able to break free from the slump.
Thirdly, umm.. hm.. *extends a paw* I'm Blitz ;p What's up?
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I know that I'm not clinicly depressed, it's just the easiest word to use to describe how I felt... heh
as for the relaxing bit, I know.. I have a real bad habit of making a surprisingly simple situation into something complex. I think the point I was trying to get across was weither or not I should follow my heart and go after someone I know I like but might not like me back or go let someone I know likes me.... Ive never been in a relationship before... and.. I dunno.. Im just scared that id I make the wrong decision, I'll end up hurting the people I care about.
thanks for the reply though... best advice is to like you said just relax and let stuff happen.
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