Lessons to a four year old.
My own nature is at odds with my desire to teach my daughter a lesson. Harumph.
I have always been a hard worker and I like to buy things with my money. As such, I usually take care of things I buy so they'll last. I use things for their intended purpose rather than wear them out on tasks they weren't designed for, etc, etc, etc, and I get overly upset at having to re-buy something I have already bought. That's just part of being me.
Now, add to this one four year old. A four year old leaves things behind. Toys. Sweaters. Bags of food. Shoes. You name it. I need her to learn that if she doesn't keep track of her stuff, she won't get to keep it.
Unfortunately, I am compelled to return to wherever we've been to attempt to get her items back. Also, unfortunately, I almost always do. I'd be ok if I tried but couldn't get it back; then my compulsion would be satisfied and she'd learn her lesson. Instead, she is learning that whatever she leaves behind mom can just go get.
Life is never easy.
I have always been a hard worker and I like to buy things with my money. As such, I usually take care of things I buy so they'll last. I use things for their intended purpose rather than wear them out on tasks they weren't designed for, etc, etc, etc, and I get overly upset at having to re-buy something I have already bought. That's just part of being me.
Now, add to this one four year old. A four year old leaves things behind. Toys. Sweaters. Bags of food. Shoes. You name it. I need her to learn that if she doesn't keep track of her stuff, she won't get to keep it.
Unfortunately, I am compelled to return to wherever we've been to attempt to get her items back. Also, unfortunately, I almost always do. I'd be ok if I tried but couldn't get it back; then my compulsion would be satisfied and she'd learn her lesson. Instead, she is learning that whatever she leaves behind mom can just go get.
Life is never easy.