annoyingly two-faced
If it's not okay to decide that a person is gay (& despite it sometimes being 'obvious' I agree)........then why do other people decide that it's tickety boo and hunky fucking dory to decide that I'm straight?????? And then to be surprise when I'm insulted by that arrogant and false conclusion. It's just as insulting for me to be called straight, when I'm not, as it is to some others to be called gay when they're not.