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lou_goddess

Need some help from my female friends

Dec 27, 2006 11:49

What I would like to know is this....What is your favorite romantic movie and why. Or if there is no movie then book or story. I need some ideas on how to be romantic, for my new Lady. My ideas just aren't cutting it, or rather, my romance skills are in need of some shining. Please help me out. Or even tell me what exactly does make a romantic ( Read more... )

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mela_4_me December 27 2006, 20:10:23 UTC

The first thing you can do to impress her is to treat her like a lady. Feeling respected is so important. I always loved that you never forgot to open the car door for me. Find out the places she likes to go, the things she likes to do....Things like quiet little bars where you can talk quietly without having to shout over the music, maybe, or a quaint little restaraunt. Is she a tactile person? Little things like brushing her hair out of her eyes (if her hair is long enough for that?) touching her cheek or her hand for just a second, to show her that you enjoy talking to her, and listening to her, and being in contact ( ... )

lou_goddess December 27 2006, 20:33:02 UTC

I thought if I was doing the wooing, my wants and needs didn't really matter. What if she is afraid of what I want??

mela_4_me December 27 2006, 20:38:17 UTC

If she finds out things that you like too, then you can come to a compromise and find things you both like. Also, she will understand when you take off to do something she is not as fond of. It is a two way street, you both have to enjoy what you are doing.

lou_goddess December 27 2006, 20:39:50 UTC

Thank you for the suggestion. I will remember that.

mela_4_me December 27 2006, 20:41:15 UTC

*smiles*

What are friends for?

lou_goddess December 27 2006, 20:46:02 UTC

Do you want that in alphabetical order or order of importance?? Thanks for being my friend, Pamela. I am glad you are still in my life.

mela_4_me December 27 2006, 20:57:20 UTC

Me too!!

crobbins78 December 30 2006, 19:01:26 UTC

I've always felt that if you were the one doing the wooing, all it meant is that you were doing the pursing and the other person was being "passive". It doesn't mean that the "passive" one doesn't learn anything about the one doing the wooing though.

If she is afraid of what you want, then you need to move on. Not every person you go on a date with is gonna lead to anything more than just having gone on a date with someone.

I always like a guy who opens all the doors for me (especially the car door), when we are talking he looks into my eyes, and he isn't checking out other women when he's with me. I also think it's sweet when a guy asks if he can kiss me, hold my hand, etc. before he actually does it for the first time.

lou_goddess January 1 2007, 18:46:16 UTC

Thank you for sharing!!! I always appreciate a woman who is honest.

I will keep opening doors, carrying packages, lighting her cigarettes, holding her coat and others. I didn't think about the asking to kiss her!! I just assume everyone wants to kiss me!! LOL Or even hold her hand, that's awesome, THANKS!!!

Hope your new year is filled with lots of love and laughter, Lou

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