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Feb 09, 2004 21:47

for a woman, anxiety with a man comes from a father who didn't love you unconditionally.

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swung February 9 2004, 16:09:41 UTC
so 84% of the female population are madwomen.

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lotusmilk February 9 2004, 21:45:54 UTC
why do you think the neurotic female is such a cliché?

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swung February 9 2004, 21:59:01 UTC
is that a rhetorical question?

i was blessed with a lover containing the heart of a true mother & the hands, arms, & honor of a gladiator. yet my anxiety is thorough, my father left my brothers and i when i was 9. he left on a plane, said he was going on a business trip, but i remember crying like i'd never see him again, i guess i knew.

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Re: swung February 9 2004, 22:07:27 UTC
my mother's father was an emotionally abusive alcoholic, he was never present and i remember him always falling asleep at the kitchen table ... my mother got knocked up three times by the time she was 26, my father left & she became a lesbian.

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Re: lotusmilk February 10 2004, 15:09:25 UTC
my mother was sexually, emotionally and physically abused by my grandfather, and grew up taking care of my schitzophrenic grandmother. she fell pregnant with my brother at 16 and was kicked out of home. she's now the most kind loving, selfless person with a copious amount of moral integrity. i'm infinitely proud of her and the way she chose to end up.

do you think your mother is a lesbian because it was with her through her whole life, or because she's tired of men?

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Re: lotusmilk February 10 2004, 15:11:22 UTC
not to sound insensitive, but i always wished for an absent father. for me, better an absent one than one who phsyically and psychologically abuses you.

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