Feb 15, 2009 23:45
So I always feel like I want to and should do a friends cut.
A REAL cut where I cut people that I don't talk to anymore or just don't post about things that interest me and I can NEVER do it. I always end up just cutting 3 or 4 people that have either removed me first or literally don't post at all.
Why is this important to you?
If you are chicken like me now's the chance for you to drop me like I'm hot if you so desire. I swear that I will NOT take it personally and we will both probably be relieved. I do not post as much as I used to and I always say I'm going to get better, but work keeps winning out that suck for me and my flist. Do us both a favor and be the man in our relationship and FIX IT, k?
Thank you, kindly ♥
Oh and if you are one of the ones that I never talk to but really still feel the need to keep around I will take this as a sign that it is an unrequited love and let you leave in peace.
In other flist news, I finally removed someone that I've been hanging on to for over a year. It's weird when someone you only know over the internet dies because then you (or I do) have an even higher guilt factor when it comes to cutting them. For me it's cutting the only connection you have left to them and even if you weren't best friends or anything it's still just seems weird and wrong. If anything ever happened to any of you and you just disappeared without warning or explanation it would completely suck and I would miss you so hard. Like I know she'll never post again and her family and friends have no idea what her passwords and such are so it's not like there will ever be a 'closure post', but I am still having an issue. I guess I'm just thinking that if it were me I would hope that my online friends would feel the same way. Anyhoodle... [/rant]
I am off to catch up on season 4 of How I Met Your Mother and I think you know what kind of event it's going to be...
*dances*
EDIT: You don't have to comment and ask to stay. Chances are that if you are reading this, I didn't cut you because I only have the cohones to cut those who I know cut me already or literally stop posting to LJ all together. This is a chance for you to cut me and I won't hold it against you or ask questions. Make like Nike and just do it.
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