--Huge update--
I don't even know where to begin. So much has happened since my last real update.
I ended back up in Cincinnati last year. Things just weren't working out up there in Cleveland for me and if you read before I had way too much drama. The drama has ended! Yay! My father wasn't happy about me moving back but I had too. I have been back up there a few times since then and it seems like nothing changes with the family. I must say that the last trip was quite fun though. I took the woman I have have been with now for almost a year and the family loves her to pieces! For the first time in my whole life my family actually approves of the woman I'm dating! This is a great thing since we are unofficially engaged!
Lets see... I got into one more serious relationship with a woman who I will not name while i lived in cleveland.... We just didn't work out due to the fact that she was on the clingy side and wanted to move to Cincinnati after only two months of being together. i couldn't let that happen, because at that point I was falling for my current, and even if that wasn't happening I didn't feel like she was someone I would have commited to in the long run. Well then there was the obvious on why she couldn't come here. My mother would kill her. She was 32. Don't ask i don't know why. Anyways we are still cool, we found that we work better as friends. We don't really talk to much anymore. She was all about the drama shit, and I was done with that after all the shit I went through with the past people who were in my life.
Coming home wasn't the easiest thing in the world to do. I made some really awesome friends, found a lot of really good paces to go. The hardest thing was calling my mother and telling her that she was right about my family. She always said that eventually I would take so much verbal abuse and would want to come back home. My stepdad came to get me, and that was the longest car ride of my life. Well for one we got stuck in traffic for hours, and two.... What do you say to someone who you have barley spoken too in two years? What do you say to someone who did nothing but raise you like he was yours and you pay him back by levaing without a thanks, or goodbye for that matter? He pretty much just told me that there was going to be some rules when we get back. They weren't ridiculous. Just that I work and go back to school.
I have not exactly followed these rules. I have a job that was the easy part. In fact this is my second job since I've been back. I work for the same telemarketing comany my mom does. I couldn't do it. I stuck that out for about five months. That job was one of those either your great at it, or you suck at it. So I went back to what I did when I was younger. I work at krogers. I know it's not the greatest, but its a job until i can find someting better. It dosen't pay all that well, but then again its not slave labor. I am planning to possibly go take my ged in the next couple of months. I need a shitload of help with math. The only things holding me back are fear and math. But I will get this done one day.
So now we are a little more up to date. I would like to tell you about my woman. Before you go "oh no, a woman.... thats usually not a good thing in heathers life. Her name is Amber, aka......
miss_ghoulina
We have been together for almost a year now. Would you believe it if for once I told you that we have no drama, and that we never really have huge fights? I thjink I did it the right way this this time. We were friends for a long time before we we started a relationship. She makes the happiest I have been for a long time! Pretty soon we are going to get a place together. We have to start saving up. I am so excited! tehe!
Well I feel like this is getting a bit long and I don't want to bore you. I may write more later.
Toodles
I ended back up in Cincinnati last year. Things just weren't working out up there in Cleveland for me and if you read before I had way too much drama. The drama has ended! Yay! My father wasn't happy about me moving back but I had too. I have been back up there a few times since then and it seems like nothing changes with the family. I must say that the last trip was quite fun though. I took the woman I have have been with now for almost a year and the family loves her to pieces! For the first time in my whole life my family actually approves of the woman I'm dating! This is a great thing since we are unofficially engaged!
Lets see... I got into one more serious relationship with a woman who I will not name while i lived in cleveland.... We just didn't work out due to the fact that she was on the clingy side and wanted to move to Cincinnati after only two months of being together. i couldn't let that happen, because at that point I was falling for my current, and even if that wasn't happening I didn't feel like she was someone I would have commited to in the long run. Well then there was the obvious on why she couldn't come here. My mother would kill her. She was 32. Don't ask i don't know why. Anyways we are still cool, we found that we work better as friends. We don't really talk to much anymore. She was all about the drama shit, and I was done with that after all the shit I went through with the past people who were in my life.
Coming home wasn't the easiest thing in the world to do. I made some really awesome friends, found a lot of really good paces to go. The hardest thing was calling my mother and telling her that she was right about my family. She always said that eventually I would take so much verbal abuse and would want to come back home. My stepdad came to get me, and that was the longest car ride of my life. Well for one we got stuck in traffic for hours, and two.... What do you say to someone who you have barley spoken too in two years? What do you say to someone who did nothing but raise you like he was yours and you pay him back by levaing without a thanks, or goodbye for that matter? He pretty much just told me that there was going to be some rules when we get back. They weren't ridiculous. Just that I work and go back to school.
I have not exactly followed these rules. I have a job that was the easy part. In fact this is my second job since I've been back. I work for the same telemarketing comany my mom does. I couldn't do it. I stuck that out for about five months. That job was one of those either your great at it, or you suck at it. So I went back to what I did when I was younger. I work at krogers. I know it's not the greatest, but its a job until i can find someting better. It dosen't pay all that well, but then again its not slave labor. I am planning to possibly go take my ged in the next couple of months. I need a shitload of help with math. The only things holding me back are fear and math. But I will get this done one day.
So now we are a little more up to date. I would like to tell you about my woman. Before you go "oh no, a woman.... thats usually not a good thing in heathers life. Her name is Amber, aka......
miss_ghoulina
We have been together for almost a year now. Would you believe it if for once I told you that we have no drama, and that we never really have huge fights? I thjink I did it the right way this this time. We were friends for a long time before we we started a relationship. She makes the happiest I have been for a long time! Pretty soon we are going to get a place together. We have to start saving up. I am so excited! tehe!
Well I feel like this is getting a bit long and I don't want to bore you. I may write more later.
Toodles