Perspective

[lostinpandas]

Events in my life as a child caused me to look at every situation from all possible angles that I could manage to see. It's really quite aggrivating to be able to see the ups and downs of every situation, and to be able to see and understand everyones point of view. I feel it prevents me from being able to have my own. I can't argue any side,

Comments

[curlyheadhippie]

first off, unless you are planning to slowly and painfully mass murder a lot of people, perhaps including friends and family and watnot, after which you ritualistically use a machete (spelling?) cutting off their body parts to burn in a fire and "feed" to some God, then you dance, laugh and piss on their ashes...then no you are not a shitty person (although that does provide for a funny mental picture)
at least you've not let the bad times ruin your care about everyone, and for you to understand many perspectives only gives you more depth as a person and a better ability to discover the truth in situations where it might not be so easily seen. the most you can do for your own happiness is to take all those points of view into consideration and try to stay on the optimistic, or even just the humorous side. but moreover, definitely try to define wat YOU want from any situation, even if it doesn't come to pass. it wouldn't make you a shitty or even selfish person, just would make it clear who you are and wat you want
ps sry if i sound like a fortune cookie or somethin, i'm in balti now but will be back sunday and next week if you wanna get together or anything, take it easy