the agony and irony that killeth me
You know what peeves me off?
Guys.
And the fact that i already wrote this entry and was done when my computer decided to go to sleep and not save it, screw livejournals autosave, YOU SUCK!
Now.......
I want to clarify that what i am about to write is directed toward a small group of people, maybe the entire sex but since i havent met all of you i can only hope that i am wrong. I do not mean to single one person out and all the situations or senarios i bring up will be things that have happened repeatedly to people i have known and none have anything to do with you. So before you get on this little "i'm the victim" streak keep in mind that i honestly do not care and am quite frankly too tired.
You people think you have it soooo hard trying to figure us out, cause the woman is such a mystery.
WELL NEWS FLASH
You guys arent that easy either.
You like us but it takes you almost two years to tell us, then you get mad about the fact that we said okay to a date, because we want to give you a chance to prove us wrong in any sort of way.
You dont and we go on.
You get mad that we might actually like someone more than you even though we might be possibly dating you, well guess what hun, you know it isn't going to work out so why are you pretending that this relationship meant anything to you if it was only for such a short time. (that goes for both sexes by the way) I can understand if you were hurt because ya;ll were promised, or engaged/married, or dating to a point where you actually knew stuff about each other to the point that you are comfortable with not having a conversation and just sitting there. (and that means both parties)
One sided love hurts, i know, i wrote the book. BUT FOR THE LOVE OF ANYTHING RESEMBLING PRIDE if you aren't going to do anything about it then be happy with your choice.
Stop hesitating, that just makes things worse, its like driving on 77 (charlotte freeway) if you put your clicker on and wait for a good clearing to enter so your not cutting anyone off but the hesitate, that defeats the whole purpose, because by then you dont have a clear zone and you did just cut someone off you is really mad at you right now and probably flicking you the bird.
When someone says they like you, make sure you understand what they mean. For instance, I like you. But i mean that i like you as a person, i might date you but i expect nothing out of it except the little jokes about how we used to be an item when i actually have a real relationship, i like you but that doesn't mean i want to do anything with you, i would like you to go away right now, i like you so please look at me, i like you, i like you like a brother, i like you in a more than friend way...there are SEVERAL forms of like.
If you are the jealous type then i suggest you become a unich and go live off in some hill because your type wont last very long in this century, people will look at your "friend" they will talk and they might actually pass a joke back and forth. The only time you should have a problem is when your friend goes home with them. Cause that means she's a slut.
The funny thing is, i know two people who are going to read this, not get the right idea and think that i am mentioning there situation in some shape or form and showing it to the world. But the only problem with that it, this post is to anyone who has or has had at one point a "M" at the sex indicator on their license.
But to clarify, while it might talk about something you might be dealing with, in all aspect who isn't dealing with something of the sort? This is actually a reply to a miscommunicated conversation. Which resulted in me staying up way too late just to write out my aggrivations.
But that is all for now kiddies so, next time on bittersweet livejournals from lost_pinecone7, you might get something good.
Guys.
And the fact that i already wrote this entry and was done when my computer decided to go to sleep and not save it, screw livejournals autosave, YOU SUCK!
Now.......
I want to clarify that what i am about to write is directed toward a small group of people, maybe the entire sex but since i havent met all of you i can only hope that i am wrong. I do not mean to single one person out and all the situations or senarios i bring up will be things that have happened repeatedly to people i have known and none have anything to do with you. So before you get on this little "i'm the victim" streak keep in mind that i honestly do not care and am quite frankly too tired.
You people think you have it soooo hard trying to figure us out, cause the woman is such a mystery.
WELL NEWS FLASH
You guys arent that easy either.
You like us but it takes you almost two years to tell us, then you get mad about the fact that we said okay to a date, because we want to give you a chance to prove us wrong in any sort of way.
You dont and we go on.
You get mad that we might actually like someone more than you even though we might be possibly dating you, well guess what hun, you know it isn't going to work out so why are you pretending that this relationship meant anything to you if it was only for such a short time. (that goes for both sexes by the way) I can understand if you were hurt because ya;ll were promised, or engaged/married, or dating to a point where you actually knew stuff about each other to the point that you are comfortable with not having a conversation and just sitting there. (and that means both parties)
One sided love hurts, i know, i wrote the book. BUT FOR THE LOVE OF ANYTHING RESEMBLING PRIDE if you aren't going to do anything about it then be happy with your choice.
Stop hesitating, that just makes things worse, its like driving on 77 (charlotte freeway) if you put your clicker on and wait for a good clearing to enter so your not cutting anyone off but the hesitate, that defeats the whole purpose, because by then you dont have a clear zone and you did just cut someone off you is really mad at you right now and probably flicking you the bird.
When someone says they like you, make sure you understand what they mean. For instance, I like you. But i mean that i like you as a person, i might date you but i expect nothing out of it except the little jokes about how we used to be an item when i actually have a real relationship, i like you but that doesn't mean i want to do anything with you, i would like you to go away right now, i like you so please look at me, i like you, i like you like a brother, i like you in a more than friend way...there are SEVERAL forms of like.
If you are the jealous type then i suggest you become a unich and go live off in some hill because your type wont last very long in this century, people will look at your "friend" they will talk and they might actually pass a joke back and forth. The only time you should have a problem is when your friend goes home with them. Cause that means she's a slut.
The funny thing is, i know two people who are going to read this, not get the right idea and think that i am mentioning there situation in some shape or form and showing it to the world. But the only problem with that it, this post is to anyone who has or has had at one point a "M" at the sex indicator on their license.
But to clarify, while it might talk about something you might be dealing with, in all aspect who isn't dealing with something of the sort? This is actually a reply to a miscommunicated conversation. Which resulted in me staying up way too late just to write out my aggrivations.
But that is all for now kiddies so, next time on bittersweet livejournals from lost_pinecone7, you might get something good.