today has been rather uneventful. sure, i can think of a shitload of things i need to be doing right now, but that's just not my style to get them done ahead of time
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It's not an issue of guys or even girls.. it all comes down to people mindlessly searching for that "magical person they will spend forever with".. people get so frustrated that so and so and so and so only goes for so and so when reality people are just looking to "connect" with the "one" and in this journey, there prove to be so many that either arent the one or the the one you may think is the one isnt because in that person's eyes you aren't the one (and in terms of going for unobtainable beauty, it makes sense for those searching for the fairy tale to look for someone to fit that part doesn't it? Be it a dead ringer for Angeline Jolie or Johnny Depp). And the more people beat themselves up about this crap, the more self inflicted stress they have. Just let go, if you end up with someone you do, if you don't you don't. Better to be honest either way, than self diluted and unhappy deep down. Society tells you from day one that the most important part of living "happily ever after" is having that prince or princess. Fuck them
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As to the desire to diet to be thin, believe me, I more than understand how you feel. But really, is that going to make you happy? You shouldn't lose weight to be thin, and especially not to be attractive to others. Do it because you want to be healthy and more fit. My body image has been something I've struggled with since the first time somebody ever called me fat. I've gone through plenty of self-loathing, but I finally decided that I liked myself the way I was and I didn't ever think anything was wrong with me until somebody else said there was. Society makes it hard, but you've always struck me as somebody who was really self-confident. You're adorable and there is nothing that you should feel is necessary to change about your body.
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As to the desire to diet to be thin, believe me, I more than understand how you feel. But really, is that going to make you happy? You shouldn't lose weight to be thin, and especially not to be attractive to others. Do it because you want to be healthy and more fit. My body image has been something I've struggled with since the first time somebody ever called me fat. I've gone through plenty of self-loathing, but I finally decided that I liked myself the way I was and I didn't ever think anything was wrong with me until somebody else said there was. Society makes it hard, but you've always struck me as somebody who was really self-confident. You're adorable and there is nothing that you should feel is necessary to change about your body.
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