Re: THE RESPONSE FROM ASHOLE STEPDAD 2
anonymous
September 12 2004, 16:20:59 UTC
NO I bought the car, You would not have a car if I didn't fess up over 1800 dollars of the 2500 dollars because you kept blowing your money. Plus would you have bought one without me, you and your mother kept saying she really needs your help to find a car. NO ONE ELSE DID THAT I DID.
And you are such a whining little poophead. You wouldn't be alive now, come on your life sucked so bad. And I don't care if you talk to the ones you love about your problems but DO NOT put the christine spin on things, and when did you start loving CORE, DAN, etc.. etc.. you talk to everyone about me and how mean and hateful I am. smiles 3 the whole year and that was my fault. THANKS AGAIN.
When did you try to move out? The last time I told you to get out you said you couldn't afford to move out. And when did TACO BELL, GATORADE, SONIC, GUM, NAIL POLISH, AND BIRTHDAY PRESENTS(JOSH), and most of ALL DINNER AT OUTBACK become paying us back. Remember you would not have gotten any money from your mother for school if I didn't tell her to go ahead and help. Remember we (mother and I) said we would not help with school unless you quit wasting money.
I understand you have 3 million things going on with your life. SCHOOL, JOSH, MONEY, JOBS, wanting to change your major, etc. etc. But why is all that my fault. I didn't do any of those thingsy to you. And don't say you praise me to and all I think about is the bad stuff. Look in the mirror Darling I have done so much for you but the first time I tried to help you grow up by giving you rules I am suddenly the ASSHOLE of the world.
Everyone goes through what you are going through, it is called growing up. Some do have is worst some have it better. But think about it, your could be worst, you might not have friends in OK, MASS and NC. You could be doing this all by yourself, think about having NO MOM, NO JOSH, NO JOB. You actually are doing pretty well. But once again anything that goes wrong is the fault of Brian being in a BAD MOOD that day or moment. How come all your friend like me at first, SAM, HORTIE, JOSH, CORE, etc. etc. But you think I am the worst thing since they created rules and laws.
As I have said over and over again, I love you as you were my own and it upsets me to see us not connecting like we used to also, but I have to be a parent before I am your friend and you are a young adult and you don't think you need a parent anymore.
I am done.. I got everything off my chest also. At least we can communicate here, maybe not in person. I think you should re-read all of this again and look at how angry we were to each other. We both needed to get this out in the open I just wish everyone else wouldn't have heard about it before me.
And since you asked for the only thing I every wanted to be is your STEP - FATHER. I can't replace your father, Chuck has tried for years with me but you can't mess with blood. I still yearn for my real DAD to reach out alittle more, like calling today on my birthday. Anyway I will try to be less demanding of you, I will try to listen without attacking. And I will be anything anytime you want..
Re: THE RESPONSE FROM ASHOLE STEPDAD 2loopycootybrainSeptember 13 2004, 12:39:04 UTC
Again, I'm not blaming it all on you. It's everything put together. This is something that I feel I have a chance at fixing.
I too agree that now we can get things out in the open. This might not be the best way but I feel its a start. Maybe more then any of our talks/arguements in the past.
I don't want you to be my real dad, I just want you to be a dominant person in my life always. My real father seems to not care anymore, but see you do. I know you can't compete with blood but what if blood isn't even there? I have a dad but I don't have a blood FATHER. In my eyes, a father is someone who cares for a child, who is there for them and is willing to risk anything for them. I don't see that with my dad but I see that with you. I don't know what I'm saying, it kindof sounds all mumbled together but I hope you understand what I mean.
Thank you for trying, and I will try too. I will try to be the best person I can be and respect you.
And you are such a whining little poophead. You wouldn't be alive now, come on your life sucked so bad. And I don't care if you talk to the ones you love about your problems but DO NOT put the christine spin on things, and when did you start loving CORE, DAN, etc.. etc.. you talk to everyone about me and how mean and hateful I am. smiles 3 the whole year and that was my fault. THANKS AGAIN.
When did you try to move out? The last time I told you to get out you said you couldn't afford to move out. And when did TACO BELL, GATORADE, SONIC, GUM, NAIL POLISH, AND BIRTHDAY PRESENTS(JOSH), and most of ALL DINNER AT OUTBACK become paying us back. Remember you would not have gotten any money from your mother for school if I didn't tell her to go ahead and help. Remember we (mother and I) said we would not help with school unless you quit wasting money.
I understand you have 3 million things going on with your life. SCHOOL, JOSH, MONEY, JOBS, wanting to change your major, etc. etc. But why is all that my fault. I didn't do any of those thingsy to you. And don't say you praise me to and all I think about is the bad stuff. Look in the mirror Darling I have done so much for you but the first time I tried to help you grow up by giving you rules I am suddenly the ASSHOLE of the world.
Everyone goes through what you are going through, it is called growing up. Some do have is worst some have it better. But think about it, your could be worst, you might not have friends in OK, MASS and NC. You could be doing this all by yourself, think about having NO MOM, NO JOSH, NO JOB. You actually are doing pretty well. But once again anything that goes wrong is the fault of Brian being in a BAD MOOD that day or moment. How come all your friend like me at first, SAM, HORTIE, JOSH, CORE, etc. etc. But you think I am the worst thing since they created rules and laws.
As I have said over and over again, I love you as you were my own and it upsets me to see us not connecting like we used to also, but I have to be a parent before I am your friend and you are a young adult and you don't think you need a parent anymore.
I am done.. I got everything off my chest also. At least we can communicate here, maybe not in person. I think you should re-read all of this again and look at how angry we were to each other. We both needed to get this out in the open I just wish everyone else wouldn't have heard about it before me.
And since you asked for the only thing I every wanted to be is your STEP - FATHER. I can't replace your father, Chuck has tried for years with me but you can't mess with blood. I still yearn for my real DAD to reach out alittle more, like calling today on my birthday. Anyway I will try to be less demanding of you, I will try to listen without attacking. And I will be anything anytime you want..
LOVE YOU.. ALWAYS HAVE AND ALWAYS WILL..
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I too agree that now we can get things out in the open. This might not be the best way but I feel its a start. Maybe more then any of our talks/arguements in the past.
I don't want you to be my real dad, I just want you to be a dominant person in my life always. My real father seems to not care anymore, but see you do. I know you can't compete with blood but what if blood isn't even there? I have a dad but I don't have a blood FATHER. In my eyes, a father is someone who cares for a child, who is there for them and is willing to risk anything for them. I don't see that with my dad but I see that with you. I don't know what I'm saying, it kindof sounds all mumbled together but I hope you understand what I mean.
Thank you for trying, and I will try too. I will try to be the best person I can be and respect you.
I LOVE YOU TOO.
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