So I have been doing A LOT of thinking today, mainly because I am at home in bum-fuck nowhere without a car, high speed internet, or anyone to talk to besides my cat
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lol as u know can-can im the queen of long distance relationships. even still after my marriage until my green card finalizes. I'm stil in a long distance marriage. I assure you....it can be done. as long as your not selfish enough to give up lots of sacrifices without expecting any in return. If you really love this guy, this sacrifices will not become sacrifices but gifts you give to your lover. And things you do naturally because you know they would do the same for you some day. It's all bout taking turns. you give some for a time. then he gives some back for a time. and so on and so forth. its a relationship of sharing and learning to get along. if you learned this well as a child then you will not have a problem. of course it can only last so long but im letting you know it can go for a few years before it becomes seriously an issue. its been 3 years with me and reed and its mostly been LD. Although we've lived with eachother here and there, its never been permanent. But i tell you what, all that distance opens your eyes to more kinds of communication, which in the ends, becomes an asset to your relationship, because it allows u the advantage to know how your partner works, or if your partner doesnt want to verbally tell you whats wrong for example you will already know from the distance before hand how to deal with and communicate with him to get the answers you want in other forms other then just speaking. It's a wonderful advantage, also SEX IS GREAT i dont care what u fuckers say, the more communication you learn the more you learn the sexual mentality of your partner, so instead of guessing what they want you already know and you go right to it and suprise the hell out of them. I tell you its awsome can-can dont give up hope on this guy he sounds great. toronto is only 2 hours away from you and im 12 hour drive from mine or a 1 hour plane ride, IT CAN BE DONE but it does require effort, a lack of selfishness, and a time commitment. As for the video production, i also agree thats a very good alternative pathway, there are plenty of opportunities for you outside of radio with your education, you could go into television broadcasting with your radio broadcasting education, News anchor n suc or HOT WEATHER LADY dude just dont get downhearted about satelite radio, not everyone can afford it right now so you got time to find alternative jobs with your education just have fiath that shit will get shitty but the best will get better some day unfortunatly these days you gotta go down before you can go up. Stay strong, love willingly, and believe in yourself. LOVE ANDREA
im the queen of long distance relationships. even still after my marriage until my green card finalizes. I'm stil in a long distance marriage. I assure you....it can be done. as long as your not selfish enough to give up lots of sacrifices without expecting any in return. If you really love this guy, this sacrifices will not become sacrifices but gifts you give to your lover. And things you do naturally because you know they would do the same for you some day. It's all bout taking turns. you give some for a time. then he gives some back for a time. and so on and so forth. its a relationship of sharing and learning to get along. if you learned this well as a child then you will not have a problem. of course it can only last so long but im letting you know it can go for a few years before it becomes seriously an issue. its been 3 years with me and reed and its mostly been LD. Although we've lived with eachother here and there, its never been permanent. But i tell you what, all that distance opens your eyes to more kinds of communication, which in the ends, becomes an asset to your relationship, because it allows u the advantage to know how your partner works, or if your partner doesnt want to verbally tell you whats wrong for example you will already know from the distance before hand how to deal with and communicate with him to get the answers you want in other forms other then just speaking. It's a wonderful advantage, also SEX IS GREAT i dont care what u fuckers say, the more communication you learn the more you learn the sexual mentality of your partner, so instead of guessing what they want you already know and you go right to it and suprise the hell out of them. I tell you its awsome can-can dont give up hope on this guy he sounds great. toronto is only 2 hours away from you and im 12 hour drive from mine or a 1 hour plane ride, IT CAN BE DONE but it does require effort, a lack of selfishness, and a time commitment. As for the video production, i also agree thats a very good alternative pathway, there are plenty of opportunities for you outside of radio with your education, you could go into television broadcasting with your radio broadcasting education, News anchor n suc or HOT WEATHER LADY dude just dont get downhearted about satelite radio, not everyone can afford it right now so you got time to find alternative jobs with your education just have fiath that shit will get shitty but the best will get better some day unfortunatly these days you gotta go down before you can go up. Stay strong, love willingly, and believe in yourself.
LOVE
ANDREA
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