dont most women have a clitoral orgasm anyhow? Its also something about are our orgasms "our responsibility" or do our partners need to get their fingers out (or in, ha ha!) and do their job?!
i honestly thing - well in my experience at least, that a clitoral orgasm is more difficult for a man to give a woman than it is for her to give herself. They don't know where they are going then they do it wrong when they get there lol. Maybe i am just impatient.
That said, i am guessing that women that donot masturbate (and therefore not know to get a clitoral orgasm) may not be able to instruct or otherwise recieve a clitoral orgasm. But i am also guesing that if these women dont pleasure themselves they probably have a very ridgid missionary position sex life anyways, and ergo thier parter doesnt even try to give them clitoral orgasms.
I believe in mutual sex it is both parties responcibilty to ensure that all parties are pleasured. If a can just wants to stick it in something and not do any "work" to ensure the thing he stuck it in is enjoying it too, maybe that THING should be a salad dressing bottle instead of a woman ;)
oh yes, i agree with all of that. Men can be clueless really and I guess it us up to us to educate the little bleeders but really, when you get to my age youd think a bloke would fekking well know what to fekking do for fekks sake!
Of course, this is hypothetical and not about me at all you umderstand!!
i guess that comes back to a lot of women either not knowing what they want, or not being brave enough to ask for it.
poor men are like thier ejaculated counterparts - all running around, blind, bumping into things, not knowing what to do, with just one thing on thier minds, achieving thier own selfaborbed goal (be in ejaculation or insemination). Oh what a vicious cycle hahahah.
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evidently, for me personally, i like to have a clitoral orgasm before any penertration, so i guess sex for me is over before it really begins haha.
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That said, i am guessing that women that donot masturbate (and therefore not know to get a clitoral orgasm) may not be able to instruct or otherwise recieve a clitoral orgasm. But i am also guesing that if these women dont pleasure themselves they probably have a very ridgid missionary position sex life anyways, and ergo thier parter doesnt even try to give them clitoral orgasms.
I believe in mutual sex it is both parties responcibilty to ensure that all parties are pleasured.
If a can just wants to stick it in something and not do any "work" to ensure the thing he stuck it in is enjoying it too, maybe that THING should be a salad dressing bottle instead of a woman ;)
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Of course, this is hypothetical and not about me at all you umderstand!!
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poor men are like thier ejaculated counterparts - all running around, blind, bumping into things, not knowing what to do, with just one thing on thier minds, achieving thier own selfaborbed goal (be in ejaculation or insemination). Oh what a vicious cycle hahahah.
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I think I was saying something about women who can have orgasms but just not with their current bleedin boyfriend!
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