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Me: I don't want to lose him but at the same time I know he's not right for me...
Seth: No one you are attracted to seems to be right for you.
Seth: You know you cannot pursue these guys. There is no way that being with them would work. So you go after them safely because you know you will never have to actually do anything, except perhaps turn them down at worst.
Seth: You suffer from your desire to avoid people, and from your tendency to group people into groups: 'Clean' and 'dirty'. You don't want to be hurt, but you have no idea what being hurt is like.
Seth: Not to be patronizing, Emily, but the reasons why you do things appear very simple to me. It is how to make you stop doing them that confuses me.
Seth: You do the same things over and over.
Seth: Patterns emerge.
Seth: As long as you keep setting up the dominoes in the same row, they will fall down in the same way.
Seth: No one you are attracted to seems to be right for you.
Seth: You know you cannot pursue these guys. There is no way that being with them would work. So you go after them safely because you know you will never have to actually do anything, except perhaps turn them down at worst.
Seth: You suffer from your desire to avoid people, and from your tendency to group people into groups: 'Clean' and 'dirty'. You don't want to be hurt, but you have no idea what being hurt is like.
Seth: Not to be patronizing, Emily, but the reasons why you do things appear very simple to me. It is how to make you stop doing them that confuses me.
Seth: You do the same things over and over.
Seth: Patterns emerge.
Seth: As long as you keep setting up the dominoes in the same row, they will fall down in the same way.