something i thought was diffrent
ughhh...i hate when people get upset over something small then fight about it and then just stop talking...its happened to all of us...some times we regret some times we dont...
like today me and steph got into a fight, i dont remeber how it start but we both were fighting...usaly its only one of us and the other trys to settle it but it was both of us blaiming crap, and saying stuff that they never went through and such...but i didnt want to get steph upset..shes one of my close friends...so i tried to stop...took a little while...but then we argreed that we have things that we both do to tick one another off...we know we cant stop that from happening so we made a system up
its like this
1-for starters we listed three things that we do to one another that really get on our nerves
2-if we did it, we would just come out and say it to the person...or if your going to do it
3-if 2 happens then the person who did it owes the other person something...what ever the other person wants(with in reason)
it does sound dumb...but i actully think it could reduce things that cause builds up that lead to arguments...
like today me and steph got into a fight, i dont remeber how it start but we both were fighting...usaly its only one of us and the other trys to settle it but it was both of us blaiming crap, and saying stuff that they never went through and such...but i didnt want to get steph upset..shes one of my close friends...so i tried to stop...took a little while...but then we argreed that we have things that we both do to tick one another off...we know we cant stop that from happening so we made a system up
its like this
1-for starters we listed three things that we do to one another that really get on our nerves
2-if we did it, we would just come out and say it to the person...or if your going to do it
3-if 2 happens then the person who did it owes the other person something...what ever the other person wants(with in reason)
it does sound dumb...but i actully think it could reduce things that cause builds up that lead to arguments...