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Okay, so I have this idle idea that I should start going on dates with ladies. Maybe to convince myself I could still possibly have romantic feelings for someone? I don't know. I seem to be kind of messed up in that department. But if I learn how to talk to ladies then this will be a valuable skill to have and I will get a better idea of what I like about humans, right?
What do you think, people who still check El Jay?
Should I figure out how to talk to ladies and ask them to coffee or something? Or would that be a pointless exercise leading only to unreasonable complication and drama with no real gain for anyone involved? Or is that worry just masking my fear of putting myself out there? Like, I don't even know how to ask dudes out of dude-dates.
Or, alternatively, should I stick with my usual method of just making friends and seeing what evolves organically?
Or should I perhaps figure out how better to talk to humans that I don't know? Maybe I don't want to let go of all my childish reservation just now.
Or maybe you have some insight into this situation that I had not previously considered?
This is a very complicated problem, which is not even that important, but I feel the need to address my concern that perhaps I am being cowardly.
Please respond to this post with words.
What do you think, people who still check El Jay?
Should I figure out how to talk to ladies and ask them to coffee or something? Or would that be a pointless exercise leading only to unreasonable complication and drama with no real gain for anyone involved? Or is that worry just masking my fear of putting myself out there? Like, I don't even know how to ask dudes out of dude-dates.
Or, alternatively, should I stick with my usual method of just making friends and seeing what evolves organically?
Or should I perhaps figure out how better to talk to humans that I don't know? Maybe I don't want to let go of all my childish reservation just now.
Or maybe you have some insight into this situation that I had not previously considered?
This is a very complicated problem, which is not even that important, but I feel the need to address my concern that perhaps I am being cowardly.
Please respond to this post with words.