"It's because we live in a world of THEM."
Yesterday, I went with one of my dear friends to one of her therapy sessions. I realized soooo much when I was there, hearing her mother talk about how much it hurts her when my friend yells and cusses at her, and seeing her mother cry, oh it just made me realize so much. I hear her mother saying how she does all this stuff and I'm thinking to myself, Geeze my friend is awful, why would anyone treat there mother like that? And then I realize.... I do it too, it makes me feel awful that I do these things to my mother, and I don't know why I needed to hear another mothers pain to finally gt threw to me that I'm hurting my mother. Threw it all, my friend kept repeating "I know a bunch of people who treat there moms like this!" And I was thinking well that doesn't make it right. Then I realize how many times I've said that to my mother and all those quack doctors. The first thing I did when I got home was I sat my mom down on the couch (I took the chair) and I tod about my friends therpy session, and all the things I realized. Seeing as that I'm a very stubborn person, I had a hard time saying sorry to her. But when it finally came out we where both in tears.
At that session the therapist would bring me in and ask if I did that to my mom or if I did that or what I thought about it, and sorry for my friend, but I told the flat out truth. My friend was convinced that it was more important to be nice to your friends then your mother, and I told her she was very wrong and that friends aren't going to be there for you like you mother is and will be. It brought me and my mom closer, it brought me and my moms friend closer, and I know for a fact that it brought my friend and I closer. I'm glad I have someone like my her as a friend.
And after the therapy session, in my friends room we stated our opinions about the popular girls in our school, and we both agreed that some of them are very, no extreamly pretty on the outside, but when they open there mouths and that mean part of them comes out, that pretty part is quickly taken away. But that was only the last two years, there actually very nice now. But me and my friend still felt a lot of hatred towards them, and we didn't know why. But we finally agreed that they did nothing wrong to make us agry, we're just jelouse! As much as my friend and I wish that we could be a part of that group, I myself am happy with the friends I have, hell I love them like family, and I told my friend that. I jsut hope she can start seeing what she has, and the people around her that love her rather then focusing on what she doesn't have.
At this point in my life, once again, I am beyond pleased with how my life is going, I couldn't be happier. I LOVE EVERYBODY! AND I LOVE YOU, THE PERSON WHO IS READING MY BORING LIFE CHANGING EXPERIENCE! LOL
MUWAH!!! LOVE YA................................................................Abby
At that session the therapist would bring me in and ask if I did that to my mom or if I did that or what I thought about it, and sorry for my friend, but I told the flat out truth. My friend was convinced that it was more important to be nice to your friends then your mother, and I told her she was very wrong and that friends aren't going to be there for you like you mother is and will be. It brought me and my mom closer, it brought me and my moms friend closer, and I know for a fact that it brought my friend and I closer. I'm glad I have someone like my her as a friend.
And after the therapy session, in my friends room we stated our opinions about the popular girls in our school, and we both agreed that some of them are very, no extreamly pretty on the outside, but when they open there mouths and that mean part of them comes out, that pretty part is quickly taken away. But that was only the last two years, there actually very nice now. But me and my friend still felt a lot of hatred towards them, and we didn't know why. But we finally agreed that they did nothing wrong to make us agry, we're just jelouse! As much as my friend and I wish that we could be a part of that group, I myself am happy with the friends I have, hell I love them like family, and I told my friend that. I jsut hope she can start seeing what she has, and the people around her that love her rather then focusing on what she doesn't have.
At this point in my life, once again, I am beyond pleased with how my life is going, I couldn't be happier. I LOVE EVERYBODY! AND I LOVE YOU, THE PERSON WHO IS READING MY BORING LIFE CHANGING EXPERIENCE! LOL
MUWAH!!! LOVE YA................................................................Abby