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dearst men of live journal,
I am writing to ask of you, how the fuck can a young woman tell a man they do not want to do anything with them because they freak them the shit out and are tired of telling them they are fucking busy and don't have time to do any fucking thing with them ahhhh leave me alone stop bothering me!!!!? In the best possible way; and in not as many words(4 letters or more)
It's not that we (there are exceptions) want to lead you on or anything. Some of us feel bad about saying these things. We also know that it is best to say something up front. However we are more so afraid to come off as a bitch. So we put it off for we do not know how to tell these gentlemen. Which in the long term catches up with us and makes us seem like a bitch not saying we are not interested. Is it better to just shut a guy down in the very beginning? Are there any words that make it sound better? Or are we all just fucked when it comes to rejection?
okay never mind rejection is rejection i guess i answered my own question but please men of lj do you have a preference?
maybe this is why so many girls say they are bi that way they can be like "oh im looking 4 a lady right now" that way the guy wont see he's being rejected cuz he starts thinking about hot lesbian porn...
p.s. elanor the lizie mc guire movie soundtrack is awesome lol
I am writing to ask of you, how the fuck can a young woman tell a man they do not want to do anything with them because they freak them the shit out and are tired of telling them they are fucking busy and don't have time to do any fucking thing with them ahhhh leave me alone stop bothering me!!!!? In the best possible way; and in not as many words(4 letters or more)
It's not that we (there are exceptions) want to lead you on or anything. Some of us feel bad about saying these things. We also know that it is best to say something up front. However we are more so afraid to come off as a bitch. So we put it off for we do not know how to tell these gentlemen. Which in the long term catches up with us and makes us seem like a bitch not saying we are not interested. Is it better to just shut a guy down in the very beginning? Are there any words that make it sound better? Or are we all just fucked when it comes to rejection?
okay never mind rejection is rejection i guess i answered my own question but please men of lj do you have a preference?
maybe this is why so many girls say they are bi that way they can be like "oh im looking 4 a lady right now" that way the guy wont see he's being rejected cuz he starts thinking about hot lesbian porn...
p.s. elanor the lizie mc guire movie soundtrack is awesome lol