PORN
"Feminist" and "porn" don't seem to really go too well together, do they? I sure didn't think so even though I've heard about the boom in female porn directors as well as actual lesbians directing "lesbian porn" (no offense to gals who like dildos, but when I'm jerkin' to two girls, it's cuz I DON'T wanna see a dick). But tonight I was inspired to search for it.
See sex scenes in movies seem to be primarily man on top. Now while I know cinematically this is done because there's less worry about nudity that way (you see a bit more usually when she's on top), it bugged me. I want girls on top sometimes and I never see it!
That's what's great about this website, Hot Movies For Her. It's great it you're hetero, bi, lez, or even trans/gender-queer :) They have girl on guy, guy on girl, femme on femme, boi on femme, butch on femme, butch on butch, and GUY ON GUY for the girls like me haha. Now the hetero stuff is (sadly unsurprisingly) hit or miss. There are some great ones and there are some not-so-great (aka cum in the face and calling girls "sluts" for starters). But hey, these flicks were all hand-picked by the women who run the site so there must be something for everybody!
If you're like me, wanting to watch sometimes but get nauseated by the sexism in most porn, give this site a look :D
And in conclusion, a list of Top 10 Feminist/Feminist-Friendly Sex Songs:
1. Naked But Safe, IAMX
A pretty man singing about being a sub.
2. Melt!, Siouxsie & the Banshees
A woman singing a lovely song about your man loving it when you tie him up ;)
3. I'm A, Peaches
A song for the switches. She's "a man and a goddess."
4. Explode, Uh Huh Her
A nice lesbian love song (even though the video has a guy/girl...).
5. The Bondage Song, London After Midnight
He wants to dominate as well as be torn apart. Hee.
6. Sailor, IAMX
A lovely, eery song about M/M jail-sex.
7. Lick It, God-des & She
A nice song about giving girls head (by girls) :D
8. Ice Cream, Jeffree Star
Oral sex for both genders. Hooray.
9. Drive, Melissa Ferrick
Gotta love acoustic guitar lesbian-sex songs about explicit love and doing it in offices.
10. She's My Man, Scissor Sisters
Okay, okay it's not a sex song but it's a guy loving his dominant gf. Squee!
See sex scenes in movies seem to be primarily man on top. Now while I know cinematically this is done because there's less worry about nudity that way (you see a bit more usually when she's on top), it bugged me. I want girls on top sometimes and I never see it!
That's what's great about this website, Hot Movies For Her. It's great it you're hetero, bi, lez, or even trans/gender-queer :) They have girl on guy, guy on girl, femme on femme, boi on femme, butch on femme, butch on butch, and GUY ON GUY for the girls like me haha. Now the hetero stuff is (sadly unsurprisingly) hit or miss. There are some great ones and there are some not-so-great (aka cum in the face and calling girls "sluts" for starters). But hey, these flicks were all hand-picked by the women who run the site so there must be something for everybody!
If you're like me, wanting to watch sometimes but get nauseated by the sexism in most porn, give this site a look :D
And in conclusion, a list of Top 10 Feminist/Feminist-Friendly Sex Songs:
1. Naked But Safe, IAMX
A pretty man singing about being a sub.
2. Melt!, Siouxsie & the Banshees
A woman singing a lovely song about your man loving it when you tie him up ;)
3. I'm A, Peaches
A song for the switches. She's "a man and a goddess."
4. Explode, Uh Huh Her
A nice lesbian love song (even though the video has a guy/girl...).
5. The Bondage Song, London After Midnight
He wants to dominate as well as be torn apart. Hee.
6. Sailor, IAMX
A lovely, eery song about M/M jail-sex.
7. Lick It, God-des & She
A nice song about giving girls head (by girls) :D
8. Ice Cream, Jeffree Star
Oral sex for both genders. Hooray.
9. Drive, Melissa Ferrick
Gotta love acoustic guitar lesbian-sex songs about explicit love and doing it in offices.
10. She's My Man, Scissor Sisters
Okay, okay it's not a sex song but it's a guy loving his dominant gf. Squee!