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I'm acting like the type of girlfriend that I hate.
I don't mean to be short with Will or get upset at him, but seriously.
I want to meet his friends...he speaks so highly of Dave and Sean and Jordan, so of course I want to meet them. They're my boyfriend's best friends, and I adore him, therefore I think I'd probably really like his friends.
But he seems to have little to no interest in any of my friends, and that's total crap. I don't care if he's usually quieter and doesn't care for small talk...if he wants to be with me, he needs to see that these are my best friends, and they sort of come with the package. I'm not asking him to be bestest pals with my friends, honestly I'm not, I just want him to put forth a miniscule amount of effort so everyone doesn't think he's just some sarcastic asshole who doesn't care enough about me to try a little bit. Because I do think he cares, quite a bit in fact, I just wish he could be a little more open with this specific situation.
I hate that I'm already getting this angry at him over something only 5 weeks in...but after a year of friendship with him (plus a month+ of dating), he should know how important my friends are to me, and I was kind of hoping he would maybe want to be a part of that.
I don't know.
I don't mean to be short with Will or get upset at him, but seriously.
I want to meet his friends...he speaks so highly of Dave and Sean and Jordan, so of course I want to meet them. They're my boyfriend's best friends, and I adore him, therefore I think I'd probably really like his friends.
But he seems to have little to no interest in any of my friends, and that's total crap. I don't care if he's usually quieter and doesn't care for small talk...if he wants to be with me, he needs to see that these are my best friends, and they sort of come with the package. I'm not asking him to be bestest pals with my friends, honestly I'm not, I just want him to put forth a miniscule amount of effort so everyone doesn't think he's just some sarcastic asshole who doesn't care enough about me to try a little bit. Because I do think he cares, quite a bit in fact, I just wish he could be a little more open with this specific situation.
I hate that I'm already getting this angry at him over something only 5 weeks in...but after a year of friendship with him (plus a month+ of dating), he should know how important my friends are to me, and I was kind of hoping he would maybe want to be a part of that.
I don't know.