Jesus, I'm sorry. This is bad enough from complete strangers but... jesus this just isn't Fair. I know life isn't, but the reality of it just likes to kick in the teeth now and then.
Surely it's not legal to fire somebody on the absis of their sexuality, now? Then again she's the owner...
If I am totally out of line here than you just let me know and I'll shut up, but... mayhaps your family would behave differently if they knew for sure of your orientation? I mean, what messages are you getting here? Are they actively angry or just 'concerned'?
I mean it's always easy to judge something until you're actually invovled with it. In a hopeful state of mind here, Maybe you would force them to rethink their attitudes? After all they have in their own religion's standsrds 'done everything right', but that has not changed who you are. Your aunt is, as you say, chill, so she's probably more open midned than most. But... as you say you're srtuck in a horrible situation here, I don't know how to help. I wish I could. I suck at this kind of thing, sorry :(
Or... well, if I'm being an asshole then I'm sorry and I'll stay out of your problems.
Also, that photo is adorable. And that guy is STRONG O_o
I hope everything works out for you. Sorry I'm not mroe aware of your posts and paying clsoer attention, though ymadvice for these things is usually pants anyway...
Surely it's not legal to fire somebody on the absis of their sexuality, now? Then again she's the owner...
If I am totally out of line here than you just let me know and I'll shut up, but... mayhaps your family would behave differently if they knew for sure of your orientation? I mean, what messages are you getting here? Are they actively angry or just 'concerned'?
I mean it's always easy to judge something until you're actually invovled with it. In a hopeful state of mind here, Maybe you would force them to rethink their attitudes? After all they have in their own religion's standsrds 'done everything right', but that has not changed who you are. Your aunt is, as you say, chill, so she's probably more open midned than most. But... as you say you're srtuck in a horrible situation here, I don't know how to help. I wish I could. I suck at this kind of thing, sorry :(
Or... well, if I'm being an asshole then I'm sorry and I'll stay out of your problems.
Also, that photo is adorable. And that guy is STRONG O_o
I hope everything works out for you. Sorry I'm not mroe aware of your posts and paying clsoer attention, though ymadvice for these things is usually pants anyway...
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