Taken from
Passionate Ben on MySpace.
And this too...
From:
Passionate BenDate: Jul 21, 2006 7:17 PM
Hey Angels,
Got this from a South African Angel today. I thought it was very cute, and right on about men and women.
I hope it puts a "TEXAS SIZED" smile on your cute little faces. : )
I get everyday (hourly sometimes! LOL!) emails from you angels asking me,
1. What's wrong with me?
2. Why am I still single?
3. Why can't I find a good guy?
4. Why can't I be treated the way I want?
Answers...
1. There is NOTHING wrong with you, so don't make me come over there and spank that victim mentality crap out of you angel! LOL! ; )
2. What's wrong with being single? (What's wrong with having too much great sex? Exactly see it's a retarded question, next! LOL!)
3. Because your looking for guys, stop looking and you might find yourself starring at a real man one day! (Desperation, is not an attractive quality on either sex. You're going to keep attracting worthless guys, because real men don't date women like that. They want to be with someone that wants to be with them, not needs to be with them.)
4. Because your giving off the "I don't think I'm worth it vibe/aura/attitude," and you probably like most women don't even realize it. You tolerate too much shit, your standards are lower then hell itself, your looking at the outside of a guy when you should be looking on the inside first. Your eyes will ALWAYS deceive you, believe me on this one!
Too many (most of you) settle for guys that you date or have married, not men and certaintly not a rarer then seeing a unicorn gentleman.
Being alone is not a bad thing (unlike popular society's opinion), it helps you to find yourself, what you want, what you don't want, who you are, and helps you take care of yourself first and foremost for once.
Problem is this terrifies most people in the world, more then anything, and why very few ever do it. Really soul searching and finding out what there all about.
The BIGGEST and SADEST settle in life is the person you have children with, marry, and spend your life with.
You angels I think are more picky with picking out shoes and jewelry then guys you date and marry I swear! LOL!
So this little article/story/poem whatever you want to call it, I think is very appropriate for you all.
One of my favorite quotes I have memorized and I hope you all burn this into your psyche with a hot iron, is this,
"The biggest danger for most of us in life is not that our aim is too high and we miss it; it's our aim is too low and we achieve it.
- Michelangelo
Have a great weekend sweet angels,
Passionate Ben : )
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Women are like apples on trees.
The best ones are at the top of the tree.
Most men don't want to reach for the good ones, because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt.
Instead, they sometimes take the apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.
The apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing.
They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who is brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
Now Men... Men are like a fine wine.
They begin as grapes, and it's up to women to stomp the - out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.
Share this with all the good apples you know.
This guy is GREAT! He really does know how to make a girl smile.