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As some of you may or may not know, I've had some recent boy drama in my life. I confronted it today, and things are more or less smoothed out after an initial blow-up, I think. If you want to know, ask, I just don't feel like putting it all out on here.
And for the first time in my life, that I can remember, I actually turned down dating a guy because I'm happy being single. Sure, there were other factors as well, but the main reason is... I just don't want a boyfriend right now.
I had to take a moment and think about why... as the hopeless romantic, I seemingly always want a boyfriend. But not right now. Nope. Perfectly happy being single and being by myself and being with my friends.
Last summer was all about boys and about guy friends (well, with one exception of Shylie). This summer is all about my girls. This was the perfect time to start watching Sex and the City. It made me realize why I'm so comfortable being single and just doing my own thing...
It's because I have such great female friends. One of the best parts about having a boyfriend is always having a partner to go do things with. Well, I've got Mishy... so that's covered. I'm never lonely because I have a great best friend, and many many other great friends as well. I feel the need to specifically mention Shannon and Audrey, because I feel that even though we don't see each other in person very much, I always enjoy chatting, gossiping, or sharing stories with them. Sometimes it seems like the three of us have our SatC-style lunch chats via AIM. lol.
And besides, who needs a boyfriend when your best friend will take care of bugs for you?
And for the first time in my life, that I can remember, I actually turned down dating a guy because I'm happy being single. Sure, there were other factors as well, but the main reason is... I just don't want a boyfriend right now.
I had to take a moment and think about why... as the hopeless romantic, I seemingly always want a boyfriend. But not right now. Nope. Perfectly happy being single and being by myself and being with my friends.
Last summer was all about boys and about guy friends (well, with one exception of Shylie). This summer is all about my girls. This was the perfect time to start watching Sex and the City. It made me realize why I'm so comfortable being single and just doing my own thing...
It's because I have such great female friends. One of the best parts about having a boyfriend is always having a partner to go do things with. Well, I've got Mishy... so that's covered. I'm never lonely because I have a great best friend, and many many other great friends as well. I feel the need to specifically mention Shannon and Audrey, because I feel that even though we don't see each other in person very much, I always enjoy chatting, gossiping, or sharing stories with them. Sometimes it seems like the three of us have our SatC-style lunch chats via AIM. lol.
And besides, who needs a boyfriend when your best friend will take care of bugs for you?