And she comes back to rant
*cleans the dust*
So kiddies, today we'll talk about a serious subject... that kinda left me awake all night, raging.
So... time for the sex talk.
First of all, I'll say I'm in no way a fan of PDA... I'm really uncomfortable when I'm entering the bus and I see a guy and a girl almost fucking in the seat. but that happens. Such is life. And since a boy and a girl can do it, why, then, can't two guys? Or two girls? Why only I have to be uncomfortable? Equal rights, folks.
Here in Brazil we are halfway to approve a law that criminalizes homophobia. And that is great!
Except there's this Religious leader that says that approving this law is akin to legalizing pedophilia.
My first reaction to his comment was "WHAT?!?!?"
My second reaction was "Please die. Slowly and painfully"
And finally, my third was "Doesn't he knows that the majority of pedophiles are inside the church?"
Then I calmed myself and thought "okay, it is his right to think like that. Just as it is my right to think he deserves to burn."
But me agreeing he can think like that doesn't mean I agree he can share those thoughts with the world. The world is a sad and bigoted place already without him flaming the war. He, as a religious leader can mold the minds of people. Then why not help make the world a better place? Isn't his god a god of peace and love? Violence, I say. Not that people listen to me.
But still. Sex. The reason of this rant.
So... Once upon a time (5 years ago), there was a boy (underage at the time), that took some photos to an editorial for a now defunct magazine. And he was kissing another boy and they were half naked in a jacuzzi. The photos are really beautiful. I know. I saved a few of them myself. Also? His mother allowed them. Signed for them even. Now? just 'cause he is on a somewhat famous tv show his lawyers are threatening to sue everyone who still has the photos online.
And I wouldn't mind that... I swear I wouldn't. I mean, even if the guy doesn't mind the pics being online, the TV station minds (don't know why, with the tv shows they're airing but still...), his Rep. mind and his manager mind. So take them off... or whatever.
But then you go on the internet and the people are hating, raging and accusing.
You might say "but it is the internet. Surely you know how it works". And yes, I do. but it is the sheer immaturity of the people that makes me mad.
So what if the boy in question is gay? So what if he is not? Will it change your life? Will it bring you closer to sleep with him? No. To all my questions.
I could go on and say "Damn, wouldn't it be cool if Naya Rivera liked girls the same way her Santana does?" It wouldn't change a damn thing whether she likes girls or not. She doesn't know me from anyone she passes on the streets on a busy day. The same way I could wish Darren Hayes liked girls. I could but would it change a thing? No.
What people do inside their rooms is their business and their business alone. Will it stop me from fantasize? No. Because they are my thoughts and if they make me feel cherished, so be it. If makes you happy, fantasize. Just don't rage because the boy might or not like boys. Won't change a thing in your life.
Respecting him, and everyone else, otherwise, might make you a better person.
If not? you're just like those guys, here in Brazil, that want to create the "Straight Pride Parade". Stupid and bigoted.
If anyone agrees with anything I say here and wants to share this with anyone, I'd be happy. Change whatever you need to.
So kiddies, today we'll talk about a serious subject... that kinda left me awake all night, raging.
So... time for the sex talk.
First of all, I'll say I'm in no way a fan of PDA... I'm really uncomfortable when I'm entering the bus and I see a guy and a girl almost fucking in the seat. but that happens. Such is life. And since a boy and a girl can do it, why, then, can't two guys? Or two girls? Why only I have to be uncomfortable? Equal rights, folks.
Here in Brazil we are halfway to approve a law that criminalizes homophobia. And that is great!
Except there's this Religious leader that says that approving this law is akin to legalizing pedophilia.
My first reaction to his comment was "WHAT?!?!?"
My second reaction was "Please die. Slowly and painfully"
And finally, my third was "Doesn't he knows that the majority of pedophiles are inside the church?"
Then I calmed myself and thought "okay, it is his right to think like that. Just as it is my right to think he deserves to burn."
But me agreeing he can think like that doesn't mean I agree he can share those thoughts with the world. The world is a sad and bigoted place already without him flaming the war. He, as a religious leader can mold the minds of people. Then why not help make the world a better place? Isn't his god a god of peace and love? Violence, I say. Not that people listen to me.
But still. Sex. The reason of this rant.
So... Once upon a time (5 years ago), there was a boy (underage at the time), that took some photos to an editorial for a now defunct magazine. And he was kissing another boy and they were half naked in a jacuzzi. The photos are really beautiful. I know. I saved a few of them myself. Also? His mother allowed them. Signed for them even. Now? just 'cause he is on a somewhat famous tv show his lawyers are threatening to sue everyone who still has the photos online.
And I wouldn't mind that... I swear I wouldn't. I mean, even if the guy doesn't mind the pics being online, the TV station minds (don't know why, with the tv shows they're airing but still...), his Rep. mind and his manager mind. So take them off... or whatever.
But then you go on the internet and the people are hating, raging and accusing.
You might say "but it is the internet. Surely you know how it works". And yes, I do. but it is the sheer immaturity of the people that makes me mad.
So what if the boy in question is gay? So what if he is not? Will it change your life? Will it bring you closer to sleep with him? No. To all my questions.
I could go on and say "Damn, wouldn't it be cool if Naya Rivera liked girls the same way her Santana does?" It wouldn't change a damn thing whether she likes girls or not. She doesn't know me from anyone she passes on the streets on a busy day. The same way I could wish Darren Hayes liked girls. I could but would it change a thing? No.
What people do inside their rooms is their business and their business alone. Will it stop me from fantasize? No. Because they are my thoughts and if they make me feel cherished, so be it. If makes you happy, fantasize. Just don't rage because the boy might or not like boys. Won't change a thing in your life.
Respecting him, and everyone else, otherwise, might make you a better person.
If not? you're just like those guys, here in Brazil, that want to create the "Straight Pride Parade". Stupid and bigoted.
If anyone agrees with anything I say here and wants to share this with anyone, I'd be happy. Change whatever you need to.