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in the middle of the work day, but a little peeve i must get out of my mind. on new year's eve, met a couple of friends to hang out. while waiting, the only married one amongst us, who seems to be having some crisis about not wanting kids while her hubby does, starts going on about 'how can these people feel happy about such a thing' (we were outside a community centre event). so rowena and i tried to say that different things make different people happy, and sometimes, all it takes is something very simple. she goes on about how she's happy, but she wants to experience life like we do, the uncertainty, instability etc... the shittiness of it. told her i didn't think my life was shitty at all. sigh. it's disturbing to think that this person who i thought was a good friend, thinks that i have a shitty life and i'm a victim of my circumstances and what i have is not what i chose. just because i have different expectations of what i want out of life, doesn't make my life any less 'sucessful' than yours, simply because i do not share the same definition of what success is. she wants to be the ceo of a big company...
pheww... *rant over*
pheww... *rant over*