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I had a talk with a cousin of mine. He's pretty good at listening to your problems, pointing out your mistakes and giving advices. We talked a lot about my relationship with JY. But everything he was telling me I had already figured out on my own but it's still nice to hear someone pointing out the same mistakes I had already picked out on my own. Because that means I'm on the right track to fixing the problem. =)
Our relationship has improved a lot. It seems like every time we argue, we become better. Some times fights are healthy for a relationship. It allows you to see your flaws, your significant other's flaws and it challenges you to become better.
I'm noticing changes in JY and I never even asked him to do anything for me... He's learning on his own his mistakes and trying to fix it as well. And it makes me super happy knowing that because it shows that he values our relationship just as much as I do and want to become better for me. I'm happy knowing that we're growing together.
This month has opened my eyes a lot. I've come to understand more to the reasons behind his frustration with me, the pain I've inflict on him when I step out of line, and so many other things. And I think he's beginning to understand me as well. We're both changing for the better. Changing for ourselves and for each other.
Our relationship has improved a lot. It seems like every time we argue, we become better. Some times fights are healthy for a relationship. It allows you to see your flaws, your significant other's flaws and it challenges you to become better.
I'm noticing changes in JY and I never even asked him to do anything for me... He's learning on his own his mistakes and trying to fix it as well. And it makes me super happy knowing that because it shows that he values our relationship just as much as I do and want to become better for me. I'm happy knowing that we're growing together.
This month has opened my eyes a lot. I've come to understand more to the reasons behind his frustration with me, the pain I've inflict on him when I step out of line, and so many other things. And I think he's beginning to understand me as well. We're both changing for the better. Changing for ourselves and for each other.