I HAVE A DATE
I HAVE 3 DATES SET UP.
That's right. 3 dates. 3 different guys. Set to go down in the next two weeks. I've been trying online dating for the past month and these are what I've gotten set up.
Guy 1 - American. From the Air Base. Seems sweet. He's got 7 years on me. Been messaging with him back and forth for the past month and he hasn't asked for me to send nude pictures yet, so he's a plus in my book so far. Has a job! We've made plans to meet next Sunday morning for brunch, and he seems totally cool with signing me on to base to do so (since I'm not affiliated with the base). After he has to run to volunteer at the air show. But that's cool! Bonus - he's fucking good looking.
Guy 2 - Japanese. Lives in the next prefecture. 2 years older than I am. Likes cats. Owns a cat. He's coming up for the airshow! Told me he has family in the area. Wants to take me to a movie after the airshow. A Japanese movie! Doesn't seem like a creep. More surprised he asked if going to a movie would be something I would like to do with him - normally, my experience with Japanese guys is that I always have to bring up what I like continuously if I want it to go anywhere. Bonus - he's Japanese, so I don't have to play translator! He can actually do shit without my help!
Guy 3 - American. Fresh off the airbase plane. I'm a year older than him. I'm sort of meh about him, actually. I've played this game before; we'll go out to a local festival Friday, and I'll have to hold his hand while he enters the big scary world that's Japan and not the comfort of his airbase dorm. Con - fresh off the plane. Probably his first time being deployed abroad. Probably his first time abroad, in general. Since he just got here, he's probably housed in the dorms, and trust me, those walls are thiiiiiiiiiiin. I hope I'm just being cynical, but while he seems nice, I just can't stop thinking about my other fling from the Air Base.
So yeah. Not to happy about Guy 3, but the first two guys have been amazing to chat with. And, honestly, I've been sort of depressed lately, and THANK FREAKING FREAKINGTY FREAK I am meeting new people. This is exactly what I need to get out of my funk.
I have no idea what to wear though, for next week. I don't give a fuck what guy 3 thinks of me, as I'm only really going out with him as practice for Sunday. I was going to go to the beach today and get some sun on my skin so I look all glowy (if I get a little burned, it should fade by next weekend) for meeting two guys on Sunday, but I can't muster the energy to get up right now from my spot in front of my fan. It's too hot.
Clothes shopping though! Maybe I'll go clothes shopping instead and pick out a new outfit to wear.
Is it too tacky that I'm meeting with two different guys on one day? I mean, now that I'm thinking about it....I would probably be skeeved if a guy did that to me. But Sunday is will be my only day off in the next 21days (thank you, work) , and meeting at night is difficult.
That's right. 3 dates. 3 different guys. Set to go down in the next two weeks. I've been trying online dating for the past month and these are what I've gotten set up.
Guy 1 - American. From the Air Base. Seems sweet. He's got 7 years on me. Been messaging with him back and forth for the past month and he hasn't asked for me to send nude pictures yet, so he's a plus in my book so far. Has a job! We've made plans to meet next Sunday morning for brunch, and he seems totally cool with signing me on to base to do so (since I'm not affiliated with the base). After he has to run to volunteer at the air show. But that's cool! Bonus - he's fucking good looking.
Guy 2 - Japanese. Lives in the next prefecture. 2 years older than I am. Likes cats. Owns a cat. He's coming up for the airshow! Told me he has family in the area. Wants to take me to a movie after the airshow. A Japanese movie! Doesn't seem like a creep. More surprised he asked if going to a movie would be something I would like to do with him - normally, my experience with Japanese guys is that I always have to bring up what I like continuously if I want it to go anywhere. Bonus - he's Japanese, so I don't have to play translator! He can actually do shit without my help!
Guy 3 - American. Fresh off the airbase plane. I'm a year older than him. I'm sort of meh about him, actually. I've played this game before; we'll go out to a local festival Friday, and I'll have to hold his hand while he enters the big scary world that's Japan and not the comfort of his airbase dorm. Con - fresh off the plane. Probably his first time being deployed abroad. Probably his first time abroad, in general. Since he just got here, he's probably housed in the dorms, and trust me, those walls are thiiiiiiiiiiin. I hope I'm just being cynical, but while he seems nice, I just can't stop thinking about my other fling from the Air Base.
So yeah. Not to happy about Guy 3, but the first two guys have been amazing to chat with. And, honestly, I've been sort of depressed lately, and THANK FREAKING FREAKINGTY FREAK I am meeting new people. This is exactly what I need to get out of my funk.
I have no idea what to wear though, for next week. I don't give a fuck what guy 3 thinks of me, as I'm only really going out with him as practice for Sunday. I was going to go to the beach today and get some sun on my skin so I look all glowy (if I get a little burned, it should fade by next weekend) for meeting two guys on Sunday, but I can't muster the energy to get up right now from my spot in front of my fan. It's too hot.
Clothes shopping though! Maybe I'll go clothes shopping instead and pick out a new outfit to wear.
Is it too tacky that I'm meeting with two different guys on one day? I mean, now that I'm thinking about it....I would probably be skeeved if a guy did that to me. But Sunday is will be my only day off in the next 21days (thank you, work) , and meeting at night is difficult.