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A matter worth considering:
experienced friends of mine have said:
"The right person is a matter of being in the right place at the right time."
Simple as it sounds, it is actually quite a difficult scenario to be in and define.
It's like saying, how do you know the right person is the right person?
Imagine that meeting the right person would encompass even more variables such as both considerations of being at the right place, at the right time and to make matters considerably more complicated, the right frame of mind, the right age, right ideals, right sexual role, right financial status or right stage of life.
Now that we're suitably muddled,
there are devised ways to go about the already mentioned "checklist" stance.
Adopt the "as it comes and deal with it" stance.
Adopt the "open to compromise" stance.
Adopt the "if the feeling is right" stance.
Adopt the "it's too troublesome to be a relationship" stance
.
.
.
The list goes on as you can see.
Everyone takes one unwittingly. Or a mix of both...
So whats stopping us from creating the environment for it to happen?
experienced friends of mine have said:
"The right person is a matter of being in the right place at the right time."
Simple as it sounds, it is actually quite a difficult scenario to be in and define.
It's like saying, how do you know the right person is the right person?
Imagine that meeting the right person would encompass even more variables such as both considerations of being at the right place, at the right time and to make matters considerably more complicated, the right frame of mind, the right age, right ideals, right sexual role, right financial status or right stage of life.
Now that we're suitably muddled,
there are devised ways to go about the already mentioned "checklist" stance.
Adopt the "as it comes and deal with it" stance.
Adopt the "open to compromise" stance.
Adopt the "if the feeling is right" stance.
Adopt the "it's too troublesome to be a relationship" stance
.
.
.
The list goes on as you can see.
Everyone takes one unwittingly. Or a mix of both...
So whats stopping us from creating the environment for it to happen?