Re: Discussion grouplittlelaurabeeApril 15 2006, 16:21:26 UTC
might be more investigative about this than the average girl...
*laughs out loud* just a tad ya think? Need i mention bowling leage / Duke directory / Jewish red neck guy from California?...an inquisitive girl sounds so much better than a stalking one *winks* but whatev, just because a girl does her reasearch does not mean she is cookoo! I heart you hunni buns a.k.a Diane Reporter Extra-ordinaire a.k.a the most awesomest co-counsel a.k.a the other law student being sucked from outling by the power of the LJ!
Hmm. I pretty much agree with everything except #4 and #8.
If I say I haevn't tried something before, I haven't. Why not just say all women animals in bed? It's not true for everyone.
And I don't display all my feelings on my face, that's just silly. You have to keep some cards to yourself. But behavior is obviously an indicator of how a girl feels.
As for $500 on an outfit... Who has that kind of money? Change it to $30 if he's REALLY cute and we're in business.
Well about the not having tried anything before...I am not the kind of girl to live on the edge and try all sorts of funky things with a new beau. Consequenly, everything i do is "routine" and "common" for me in that area. I think the percentage of girls prefering PG sex over animalistic sex is greater...the magazine makes it sound as if every girl is into whips, bondage, and whip cream!
Yeah well I do not think i have a single oufit costing that much...um hello college student much! Let's go look what's on sale and make a cute outfit out of that!
So wait, you actually try to picture him in the old wrinkly stage?! See, and here i thought this woman was totally off base...clearly I just needed a large pool of women to determine whether she truly was or not.
Well, not off the bat, but in my current situation, where I've been with Aaron for over two years, and we've dicussed marriage, it's pretty easy to look at his dad and try to figure out if he'll look like that when he gets older (in the context of 'would I want to marry this boy if he proposed?').
I think the article is off because that is not first or second date behavior, but it is true for if you've been together a long time. And I know tons of girls who try the guy's last name on for size, just for fun.
If the article refers to a new boy meaning couple of weeks new all the things perhaps might apply except the getting old thing! Although, yes as Diane said above, it is still fun to try on the last name just for the kicks of it *giggles*
So really you've pictured what Aaron might look like 10 yrs from now? I don't think i ever did that (not even with Billy and we were engaged). I did, however, look at how he was around kids to see how good of daddy he would be and little things of that nature and tried to picture what our kids might possibly look like and stuff.
So *coughs* do you think he will be proposing anytime soon? or have plans already been made?
*laughs* Actually, a friend sent me the link to it to ask my opinion of the article...I have no time to read recreationally! Or well, I should say, no desire to read recreationally *winks*
I sometimes play a la little girl and think about a possible future with the person (I blame it on my biological clock) but nothing serrious or anything...but again never looks! I realize that everyone is going to be old and wrinkly (including myself) so all that matters is if i find them attractive now!
What about the other things? When i date a girl all my answers hold true except for number one maybe...i tend to play down the girly girly mushiness (at least for a while)...where as with boys i assume the little girl role almost immediately expecting kisses on the forhead and major cuddle-age!
1. I don't emphasize any facets early on. 2. My entourage knows all. 3. I accept compliments fine. I think I'm realistic about my own strengths and weaknesses, so I'll be interested if she doesn't agree with me. 4. Never lied about that. 5. LOL I barely buy clothes. 6. My ecstatic moans are never bs. 7. "Impressive" is relative. I don't hide anything, but I don't brag. To anyone. 8. Definitely. My face is an open book. 9. Yup. 10. Nah. I say/email whatever comes out first. 11. Yes, if you've done something shitty and it's relevant later, you bet I'm gonna bring it up. 12. Definitely. (Although giving back too much change... depends on the store.) 13. Minor curiosity, no stalking/"investigating" :) 14. By your books, your clothes, what you do with your free time, who you associate with, and every word that comes out of your mouth. 15. Hell fucking yes.
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*laughs out loud* just a tad ya think? Need i mention bowling leage / Duke directory / Jewish red neck guy from California?...an inquisitive girl sounds so much better than a stalking one *winks* but whatev, just because a girl does her reasearch does not mean she is cookoo! I heart you hunni buns a.k.a Diane Reporter Extra-ordinaire a.k.a the most awesomest co-counsel a.k.a the other law student being sucked from outling by the power of the LJ!
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If I say I haevn't tried something before, I haven't. Why not just say all women animals in bed? It's not true for everyone.
And I don't display all my feelings on my face, that's just silly. You have to keep some cards to yourself. But behavior is obviously an indicator of how a girl feels.
As for $500 on an outfit... Who has that kind of money? Change it to $30 if he's REALLY cute and we're in business.
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Yeah well I do not think i have a single oufit costing that much...um hello college student much! Let's go look what's on sale and make a cute outfit out of that!
So wait, you actually try to picture him in the old wrinkly stage?! See, and here i thought this woman was totally off base...clearly I just needed a large pool of women to determine whether she truly was or not.
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I think the article is off because that is not first or second date behavior, but it is true for if you've been together a long time. And I know tons of girls who try the guy's last name on for size, just for fun.
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So really you've pictured what Aaron might look like 10 yrs from now? I don't think i ever did that (not even with Billy and we were engaged). I did, however, look at how he was around kids to see how good of daddy he would be and little things of that nature and tried to picture what our kids might possibly look like and stuff.
So *coughs* do you think he will be proposing anytime soon? or have plans already been made?
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What about the other things? When i date a girl all my answers hold true except for number one maybe...i tend to play down the girly girly mushiness (at least for a while)...where as with boys i assume the little girl role almost immediately expecting kisses on the forhead and major cuddle-age!
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1. I don't emphasize any facets early on.
2. My entourage knows all.
3. I accept compliments fine. I think I'm realistic about my own strengths and weaknesses, so I'll be interested if she doesn't agree with me.
4. Never lied about that.
5. LOL I barely buy clothes.
6. My ecstatic moans are never bs.
7. "Impressive" is relative. I don't hide anything, but I don't brag. To anyone.
8. Definitely. My face is an open book.
9. Yup.
10. Nah. I say/email whatever comes out first.
11. Yes, if you've done something shitty and it's relevant later, you bet I'm gonna bring it up.
12. Definitely. (Although giving back too much change... depends on the store.)
13. Minor curiosity, no stalking/"investigating" :)
14. By your books, your clothes, what you do with your free time, who you associate with, and every word that comes out of your mouth.
15. Hell fucking yes.
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