As someone else pointed out, lots of couples don't have sex on their wedding night, because they're exhausted and perhaps too drunk after the wedding, reception, etcetera. Getting kicked in the balls would just be more 'etcetera'.
Whether or not man is physically able to 'perform' doesn't actually have that much to do with how much he enjoys intercourse. Considerate lovers don't expect their partners to be sex-bots when they're in pain: making love is not performance art.
"I did find some stuff on a forum about men saying they love being slapped very hard there during love-making, but I don't know if that is really something because there also was a lot of trolling involved on said forum."
It's real. Google CBT BDSM for more info (CBT without the BDSM is Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy: very useful, but not the droid you're looking for.) Don't be shocked; there are much weirder, scarier, more painful things that real people enjoy, for reasons nobody else can understand. As long as it's consenting adults, "to each their own", but sometimes it's better not to click.
Anyway, unless your character has been kicked hard enough to need a doctor, he probably can get it up, but he might not take much pleasure in sex - especially with the traditional wedding-night pressure to be the Great Romantic Stud, which few or none can ever live up to even when they haven't been kicked in the 'nads. A gentle blow-job would probably help, but his bride is probably just as exhausted, and thankful to cuddle up and go to sleep. They're married now; they'll have plenty of other nights to have Epic Sex.
Yeah, I was actually thinking it might be related to BDSM, so not what I was looking for for my character. And yes, there are lots of sexual practices out there, and like you said, as long as people are okay with it and enjoy it, why not. But I figured the general male population wouldn't really want to be kicked in the nuts during intercourse...
"there are much weirder, scarier, more painful things that real people enjoy, "
Yes, like subincisions. Reading ModBlog (which covered BDSM stuff as well) before the blogger passed was... educational. In some ways I definitely didn't want to be educated.
Whether or not man is physically able to 'perform' doesn't actually have that much to do with how much he enjoys intercourse. Considerate lovers don't expect their partners to be sex-bots when they're in pain: making love is not performance art.
"I did find some stuff on a forum about men saying they love being slapped very hard there during love-making, but I don't know if that is really something because there also was a lot of trolling involved on said forum."
It's real. Google CBT BDSM for more info (CBT without the BDSM is Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy: very useful, but not the droid you're looking for.) Don't be shocked; there are much weirder, scarier, more painful things that real people enjoy, for reasons nobody else can understand. As long as it's consenting adults, "to each their own", but sometimes it's better not to click.
Anyway, unless your character has been kicked hard enough to need a doctor, he probably can get it up, but he might not take much pleasure in sex - especially with the traditional wedding-night pressure to be the Great Romantic Stud, which few or none can ever live up to even when they haven't been kicked in the 'nads. A gentle blow-job would probably help, but his bride is probably just as exhausted, and thankful to cuddle up and go to sleep. They're married now; they'll have plenty of other nights to have Epic Sex.
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But I figured the general male population wouldn't really want to be kicked in the nuts during intercourse...
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Yes, like subincisions. Reading ModBlog (which covered BDSM stuff as well) before the blogger passed was... educational. In some ways I definitely didn't want to be educated.
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