Losing virginity for girls

[ravelda]

I don't think this has been answered here yet. I'm writing a scene where a girl loses her virginity. I would like to know how many girls do/don't have an orgasm the first time they have sex, and how many feel pain from their hymen. I Googled different phrases, but I found a lot of porn sites and sketchy information. Not what I'm looking for. So...

Comments

[kayt_arminta]

For me it hurt, a lot.

Thankfully I'm a masochist and got off on the pain.

Proper prep, like foreplay, probably help. A few orally induced orgasms will help her relax so she isn't as tight as she could be.

[kayt_arminta]

Also, if this really is her first time, the muscles of her inner thighs will probably feel stretched and possibly painful. I was walking bowlegged for a couple of days from it, using muscles I don't normally use and all.

[originalpuck]

I'll second the leg situation. I know that my legs weren't used to the positioning and extension, and so I started trembling at some point. My legs definitely felt uncomfortable for awhile after it, and I know that for the next few times I'd had sex I had the same situation with my legs trembling and feeling-- well, not neccesarily pained, but definitely uncomfortable, like the unusual attention your muscles feel after a good work out/session of yoga.

[kayt_arminta]

I know no one ever warned me about it, and it sure as hell didn't come up during sex ed courses, but I REALLY would have appreciated a heads up about it. Next day I got out of bed and was so stiff I nearly fell. If I'da known to expect it I would have gotten off my bed with a lot more caution.

[nokomarie]

Ah, see what good ballet and horseback riding do for a girl?

[tear22]

That's another reason why I'm happy about spending thirteen years of my life taking ballet and other dance classes.