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Bri and I are.. done. done. done. done! At first he was really nice and sweet, then he just started getting all... creepy crazy stalker psycho. Literally. I was working two jobs (8 am-10 am, 5 pm to 12 am) and I was exhausted all the time, and he would come over at 3 or 4 am leaving all the lights on and waking me up to tell me about his night. No. That doesn't work when I'm barely getting 6 hours of sleep a night, so I told him on the mornings I had to work, he couldn't come over the night before. Makes sense, right? Since he wasn't going to stop going out/coming in at 3 or 4 in the morning, he couldn't come over at all so I could actually do something called, y'know, SLEEP.
Well, that didn't sit too well with him. One night he decided he just had to see me so instead of texting me to ask if i was awake (i wasn't), he decided to come over- at 3 am. My front door was locked, the 8 foot gate was padlocked, but the back door wasn't locked. Instead of going hm, the door's locked... maybe I should text her? He went "hm, the door's locked... hey i'll jump the fence and see if the back door's locked." He got in, got bit by Harley (hahaha. my lil gangsta) went to my bedroom door, found out it was locked too. Instead of... ah, i don't know, texting me, he used a credit card to jam my door open. He turned on the lights (no, not a lamp, the ceiling light) then went to the kitchen to get food and turned on the tv and said "hey! how are you! aw you're sleepy." and acted like he wasn't doing anything wrong. I asked him what the hell he was doing and he said "oh i havent seen you for a few days, i figured i'd come over." and I checked my phone and said ".......and you didn't text me?" and he was liek well yeah i figured if i asked you'd say no cuz you have to work." I told him to turn the lights off so he did, but the tv was keeping me up and I told him i couldn't sleep with the tv on and he was like "well i'm not tired yet" and i said well too bad I'M tired, it's MY house. and turned the tv off, then he found my new camera and started to play with it.... just fyi, the flash going off in your face every few seconds while you're trying to sleep is REALLY annoying.
After I got back from work, I told him he had to leave so I could take a nap before my 2nd job started and he did. After that the house was on lock down. All this was about 2 months ago. I hadn't seen him AT ALL except for THREE times when I accidently ran into him and when he just showed up at my work. First time was when a friend was back in town from the army, I went downtown to hang out with everyone and welcome him back home. Brian happened to show up at the bar, I basically ignored him the entire night and walked off with a friend because he just kept on pissing me off. Obvious, much? 2nd time, he showed up at my work when WE WERE CLOSED and he KNEW we were closed. He didn't text me (see a pattern here?), he just showed up and walked in and stood there watching me. I asked what he wanted and he was like oh I knew you were working so I figured I'd say hi. I said you know we're closed, you're not supposed to be in here.... so you kinda have to leave and he said oh yeah i know... i can't place an order? and i said no we're... closed. then he just stood there for another 20-30 minutes watching me sit there and glare at him. He finally left and I locked the doors, then he sat in his car for another 30 minutes doing nothing before he finally drove off. 3rd time, same situation as the first, except I walked off when another guy I was meeting walked in the bar. I didn't even say ONE word to Bri. He just sat by me watching me for half a hour until D showed up and I walked off. When I broke up with him, he went on and on and on about how we had NO problems AT ALL (um. not seeing me for 2 months? me never texting you? yeah ok.) and he was yelling at me because I was "just giving up without even trying". And what else does he do? He emails my mom, sister, other sister, and a friend bitching about me breaking up with him and asking them to talk to me and make me see that i'm making a mistake and to call him (none of them had his number, they've all met him what 2 times) so he can talk to them about it. nobody replied, and he went up to one of my friends that he saw downtown and yelled at her demanding everything she knew and she said it's not my business, i'm not involved at all. this is between you and her, you need to talk to her not me, but he didn't listen and kept yelling at her until she left. crazy much?
So i was supposed to move into another apartment in austin. I didn't. (dammit too. i was just starting to date a really great guy.) I'm back at my parent's house.
that's why. Ladies... birth control AND condoms. BOTH, not just birth control. I'm the 1% apparently. I didn't miss a pill, I didn't take one late/early. But yeah, here's baby. Tomorrow I find out if it's a boy or a girl, so cast your votes! (and don't be mad that I didn't tell you earlier. nobody knew.. until now. :) )
I'm bored. extrememly bored. I've only been home 3 weeks and I've already been to austin once. yeah, ashley needs her booty. :) (yup, that great guy is still around, even though he knows i'm pregnant. great? yeah.)
told you. big news.
Bri and I are.. done. done. done. done! At first he was really nice and sweet, then he just started getting all... creepy crazy stalker psycho. Literally. I was working two jobs (8 am-10 am, 5 pm to 12 am) and I was exhausted all the time, and he would come over at 3 or 4 am leaving all the lights on and waking me up to tell me about his night. No. That doesn't work when I'm barely getting 6 hours of sleep a night, so I told him on the mornings I had to work, he couldn't come over the night before. Makes sense, right? Since he wasn't going to stop going out/coming in at 3 or 4 in the morning, he couldn't come over at all so I could actually do something called, y'know, SLEEP.
Well, that didn't sit too well with him. One night he decided he just had to see me so instead of texting me to ask if i was awake (i wasn't), he decided to come over- at 3 am. My front door was locked, the 8 foot gate was padlocked, but the back door wasn't locked. Instead of going hm, the door's locked... maybe I should text her? He went "hm, the door's locked... hey i'll jump the fence and see if the back door's locked." He got in, got bit by Harley (hahaha. my lil gangsta) went to my bedroom door, found out it was locked too. Instead of... ah, i don't know, texting me, he used a credit card to jam my door open. He turned on the lights (no, not a lamp, the ceiling light) then went to the kitchen to get food and turned on the tv and said "hey! how are you! aw you're sleepy." and acted like he wasn't doing anything wrong. I asked him what the hell he was doing and he said "oh i havent seen you for a few days, i figured i'd come over." and I checked my phone and said ".......and you didn't text me?" and he was liek well yeah i figured if i asked you'd say no cuz you have to work." I told him to turn the lights off so he did, but the tv was keeping me up and I told him i couldn't sleep with the tv on and he was like "well i'm not tired yet" and i said well too bad I'M tired, it's MY house. and turned the tv off, then he found my new camera and started to play with it.... just fyi, the flash going off in your face every few seconds while you're trying to sleep is REALLY annoying.
After I got back from work, I told him he had to leave so I could take a nap before my 2nd job started and he did. After that the house was on lock down. All this was about 2 months ago. I hadn't seen him AT ALL except for THREE times when I accidently ran into him and when he just showed up at my work. First time was when a friend was back in town from the army, I went downtown to hang out with everyone and welcome him back home. Brian happened to show up at the bar, I basically ignored him the entire night and walked off with a friend because he just kept on pissing me off. Obvious, much? 2nd time, he showed up at my work when WE WERE CLOSED and he KNEW we were closed. He didn't text me (see a pattern here?), he just showed up and walked in and stood there watching me. I asked what he wanted and he was like oh I knew you were working so I figured I'd say hi. I said you know we're closed, you're not supposed to be in here.... so you kinda have to leave and he said oh yeah i know... i can't place an order? and i said no we're... closed. then he just stood there for another 20-30 minutes watching me sit there and glare at him. He finally left and I locked the doors, then he sat in his car for another 30 minutes doing nothing before he finally drove off. 3rd time, same situation as the first, except I walked off when another guy I was meeting walked in the bar. I didn't even say ONE word to Bri. He just sat by me watching me for half a hour until D showed up and I walked off. When I broke up with him, he went on and on and on about how we had NO problems AT ALL (um. not seeing me for 2 months? me never texting you? yeah ok.) and he was yelling at me because I was "just giving up without even trying". And what else does he do? He emails my mom, sister, other sister, and a friend bitching about me breaking up with him and asking them to talk to me and make me see that i'm making a mistake and to call him (none of them had his number, they've all met him what 2 times) so he can talk to them about it. nobody replied, and he went up to one of my friends that he saw downtown and yelled at her demanding everything she knew and she said it's not my business, i'm not involved at all. this is between you and her, you need to talk to her not me, but he didn't listen and kept yelling at her until she left. crazy much?
So i was supposed to move into another apartment in austin. I didn't. (dammit too. i was just starting to date a really great guy.) I'm back at my parent's house.
that's why. Ladies... birth control AND condoms. BOTH, not just birth control. I'm the 1% apparently. I didn't miss a pill, I didn't take one late/early. But yeah, here's baby. Tomorrow I find out if it's a boy or a girl, so cast your votes! (and don't be mad that I didn't tell you earlier. nobody knew.. until now. :) )
I'm bored. extrememly bored. I've only been home 3 weeks and I've already been to austin once. yeah, ashley needs her booty. :) (yup, that great guy is still around, even though he knows i'm pregnant. great? yeah.)
told you. big news.