GIFT
You tell me that silence
is nearer peace than poems
but if for my gift
I brought you silence
(for I know silence)
you would say
This is not silence
this is another poem
and you would hand it back to me.
-Leonard Cohen
I get the feeling that today is a writing day. Specifically of the original variety, which will prove interesting in and of
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Now, I'll be honest. I have a thick skin. It's hard to train yourself into it at first, but practice makes perfect. I KNOW my beta is going to be hard on my stuff because 1) I asked them to and 2) they want the absolute best for my story just like I do.
One of the things I learned with getting editorial when I first started working with Sunlight Books: I would rather have my editor find stuff that makes me want to curl up and have the floor swallow me than my reader. I kind of divorce my feelings while I read an edit. Sometimes I don't agree with the edits, but I take every single one and weigh it before applying it or rejecting it.
It can be hard, but if you brace yourself, get comfy, and remember that this is the good kind of hurt, like taking off a band-aid or disinfecting a scrape, it helps.
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I find I have a thick skin when it comes to having the technical aspects of my writing dissected: punctuation, sentence structure, dialogue, and the like. That I can stand to see ripped to shreds and be totally okay. THAT is the area I appreciate being advised on. It's the characters themselves that I'm always worried about, fic or original. That's where I tend to take it personally, and clearly where I need to work on ripping my bandaids.
Thanks so much for this, my dear. I really appreciate your thoughts and advice.
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