Simmer down, mufucka.

[lisacharly]

Melodrama over. I think. I'm still pissy and confused, but I'll deal with it. I have commissions to do, and requests, and my webcomic with Colin, and a sketch of my favorite musicians as superheroes (now with 20% more Lisa's-on-Crack!), and dammit, that means I must be doing something right

Comments

[lisacharly]

I think it would be the best thing you could do. There was obviously a time in your relationship that the two of you together was a good thing.

But since then you've found out that he's cheated on you (which he didn't 'fess to you about), and yet, apparently, you're still causing 'screw-ups' that he doesn't forgive you for. Hell, he should be fucking grateful you didn't break up with him then and there. He has no right to make you, who've bent over backwards for this relationship, feel guilty.

Secondly, Kita, you've been miserable for months, partially because of him (though this time, not his fault, but because you two can't be together). I think I know you well enough to think that part of that's less wanting to be with him than guilt that you're not, and seriously, that's NOT what you need right now.

Thirdly, you guys are already making longterm plans, which scares me, because I think you're cutting off a lot of opportunities in your life to be with someone who doesn't reciprocate as much as you need them to.

I really think if you guys break up, it'll be better for you in the long run. I love you dearly and I just want you to be happy, but I don't think you're doing it right.

[psylantwolf]

Thanks for your opinions Em, I'll update you when I can