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So I got a phone call today from job Number 1 telling me that the executive director would be out of town until next week and that they wanted me to meet with the activities director, Tammy. Unfortunately I cannot meet with her till Monday morning. They said they are excited and anxious to get these meetings over with and get me "on board" So I take that as I have the job. I also got a second call a little later on from the same job offering me "tips" on what to discuss when I meet with the ED and the activities lady next week. Just what areas of expertise to play up etc. I thought that was pretty nice of them. So I am guessing I have the job I really want. I am supposed to hear from job number 2 on Monday as well.
I am hoping that LH and I will get a chance to talk tonight when he gets home from work. I really do not want to hurt him at all, although I realize there is no way to avoid it. When I am honest with myself, I realize I do need to move on from this relationship. I think it is harder for me than in past relationships because he is really a good guy. He just has personality issues that I cannot learn to tolerate. I think on a more casual basis we would do fine, just not living together. I am willing to help him until he can get his own place, but he doesn't seem to accept that. I think the best thing for me will be to take the apartment that is a nice perk from the new job. It is very affordable and will give me a great opportunity to get ahead financially as well as professionally. I feel good about this decision, and I hope LH will be understanding and not hate me for taking care of me. It is my hope that we can remain friends, although I doubt he will be willing to do that!
I am hoping that LH and I will get a chance to talk tonight when he gets home from work. I really do not want to hurt him at all, although I realize there is no way to avoid it. When I am honest with myself, I realize I do need to move on from this relationship. I think it is harder for me than in past relationships because he is really a good guy. He just has personality issues that I cannot learn to tolerate. I think on a more casual basis we would do fine, just not living together. I am willing to help him until he can get his own place, but he doesn't seem to accept that. I think the best thing for me will be to take the apartment that is a nice perk from the new job. It is very affordable and will give me a great opportunity to get ahead financially as well as professionally. I feel good about this decision, and I hope LH will be understanding and not hate me for taking care of me. It is my hope that we can remain friends, although I doubt he will be willing to do that!