Autism and some issues - One woman's blog
This is from an Autism site I have on my Facebook. Just one very small in site to what it is like for a mother of an autistic child. For these moms nothing is "normal" as in raising a "normal" child. Add all their issues to the normal issues of raising a child and think how difficult life is for them. Especially single mom's with other children besides the autistic child. This woman has TWO autistic children.
If your children are "normal," then be grateful your daily issues are not any worse than they are. Just putting things in perspective. Sometimes it's good to see the other side of things that could be yours to deal with if things were turned around. This blog just touches on the surface in my opinion, but is a good start in understanding what parents of these children go through.
Food for thought.
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The Autism Rollercoaster Blog by heupelmom
This is my attempt at humor, self therapy and letting others know what it is like raising 2 boys on the Autism Spectrum.
The Forever Diaper Bag
Sometimes I feel like Autism is like a diaper bag that you never get to get rid of. It is always there.
- You always have to think about how your kiddos will react to a situation before you take them there.
- Make sure you get the vacuuming done while the kids are at school because the noise bothers them.
- Make sure you put the next days' schedule up on the schedule board so it is there when they wake up.
- Explain to the other moms at the gymnastics place why your 4 year old isn't potty trained yet and why he has to turn the lights off and then back on when it is time to leave.
- Have extra meetings with teachers. Some will understand and some you will have to fight tooth and nail to get the bare minimum of what your child needs.
- Always remember to have drinks and snacks and the required CD for the car to ease transitions.
- Know all of the right brands of foods and where you can get them and don't ever run out or risk your child not eating.
- Figure out whether an issue is behavioral, sensory or autism related and then try 1000 things to try to fix it.
- Worry about when they get invited to birthday parties and worry when they don't get invited to birthday parties.
- Arrange countless therapy appointments and then provide transportation.
- Try to get into their heads to figure out what is in their minds and help them try to express themselves.
- Never ever stop worrying because you know that everything in this difficult world is always just a bit harder on your child.
I sometimes get angry because the mom's of typically developing kids get to "outgrow" the diaper bag and move past stages into new ones. At some point they get to leave some things behind. I realize that my boys too will outgrow stages and grow into new ones. They will have successes and failures, but our family will always have that extra "diaper bag" that we will never get to put down. An extra weight, an extra consideration, an extra burden that we will always have to deal with. Some days it is light and I almost don't even feel it. Other days the weight of everything brings me to my knees.
God chose me to mother these kids for a reason and I am thankful every day for that.
But some days I just wish I could put The Forever Diaper Bag down.
Read more: http://autismsupportnetwork.leveragesoftware.com/blog_post_view.aspx?BlogPostID=f2e90c6228b144a9b282114d58f6143e#ixzz0rhlVXBT8
If your children are "normal," then be grateful your daily issues are not any worse than they are. Just putting things in perspective. Sometimes it's good to see the other side of things that could be yours to deal with if things were turned around. This blog just touches on the surface in my opinion, but is a good start in understanding what parents of these children go through.
Food for thought.
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The Autism Rollercoaster Blog by heupelmom
This is my attempt at humor, self therapy and letting others know what it is like raising 2 boys on the Autism Spectrum.
The Forever Diaper Bag
Sometimes I feel like Autism is like a diaper bag that you never get to get rid of. It is always there.
- You always have to think about how your kiddos will react to a situation before you take them there.
- Make sure you get the vacuuming done while the kids are at school because the noise bothers them.
- Make sure you put the next days' schedule up on the schedule board so it is there when they wake up.
- Explain to the other moms at the gymnastics place why your 4 year old isn't potty trained yet and why he has to turn the lights off and then back on when it is time to leave.
- Have extra meetings with teachers. Some will understand and some you will have to fight tooth and nail to get the bare minimum of what your child needs.
- Always remember to have drinks and snacks and the required CD for the car to ease transitions.
- Know all of the right brands of foods and where you can get them and don't ever run out or risk your child not eating.
- Figure out whether an issue is behavioral, sensory or autism related and then try 1000 things to try to fix it.
- Worry about when they get invited to birthday parties and worry when they don't get invited to birthday parties.
- Arrange countless therapy appointments and then provide transportation.
- Try to get into their heads to figure out what is in their minds and help them try to express themselves.
- Never ever stop worrying because you know that everything in this difficult world is always just a bit harder on your child.
I sometimes get angry because the mom's of typically developing kids get to "outgrow" the diaper bag and move past stages into new ones. At some point they get to leave some things behind. I realize that my boys too will outgrow stages and grow into new ones. They will have successes and failures, but our family will always have that extra "diaper bag" that we will never get to put down. An extra weight, an extra consideration, an extra burden that we will always have to deal with. Some days it is light and I almost don't even feel it. Other days the weight of everything brings me to my knees.
God chose me to mother these kids for a reason and I am thankful every day for that.
But some days I just wish I could put The Forever Diaper Bag down.
Read more: http://autismsupportnetwork.leveragesoftware.com/blog_post_view.aspx?BlogPostID=f2e90c6228b144a9b282114d58f6143e#ixzz0rhlVXBT8