Yeah, I do. :\ Thankfully they're brief, and I don't have them all that often.. but then again more than once is FAR too frequent for me to be comfortable with. It's not any latent sexual desire or anything, we just.. have them. I think one was described it was it was your subconscious' way of telling you that you want to be more close with your family members (or friends), and your brain decides to choose sex as the best way to show "close, compassion, family-relationship", I guess? Dunno if thats true, but thats what I tell myself. Although most of the time it sends me screaming in the other direction.
I've also read that a lot of people DO experience these dreams, it's just that no one wants to talk about it at all. Which is understandable, I suppose. But yeah.. it sets a really bad tone for me for the rest of the day, even though I wouldn't actively try to dream that up AT ALL. Just makes me feel.. gross and dirty. Ugh. Wtf brain.
re: sex dreams and friends
Yeah, I have those too, for some reason. Strangely, no lesbian dreams (I suppose because I'm not straight? hah.) but I do on occasion have sexual dreams involving friends. Actually the second-to-last one I had involved me having a "friends with benefits" relationship with him, and when I woke up and talked to him for the first time in about a month and asked him how he was, he ended up telling me that he was in a "friends with benefits" relationship with an older woman he had met. So that was a.. really interesting coincidence.
it sets a really bad tone for me for the rest of the day, even though I wouldn't actively try to dream that up AT ALL. Just makes me feel.. gross and dirty. Ugh. Wtf brain.
Yeah, I do. :\ Thankfully they're brief, and I don't have them all that often.. but then again more than once is FAR too frequent for me to be comfortable with. It's not any latent sexual desire or anything, we just.. have them. I think one was described it was it was your subconscious' way of telling you that you want to be more close with your family members (or friends), and your brain decides to choose sex as the best way to show "close, compassion, family-relationship", I guess? Dunno if thats true, but thats what I tell myself. Although most of the time it sends me screaming in the other direction.
I've also read that a lot of people DO experience these dreams, it's just that no one wants to talk about it at all. Which is understandable, I suppose. But yeah.. it sets a really bad tone for me for the rest of the day, even though I wouldn't actively try to dream that up AT ALL. Just makes me feel.. gross and dirty. Ugh. Wtf brain.
re: sex dreams and friends
Yeah, I have those too, for some reason. Strangely, no lesbian dreams (I suppose because I'm not straight? hah.) but I do on occasion have sexual dreams involving friends. Actually the second-to-last one I had involved me having a "friends with benefits" relationship with him, and when I woke up and talked to him for the first time in about a month and asked him how he was, he ended up telling me that he was in a "friends with benefits" relationship with an older woman he had met. So that was a.. really interesting coincidence.
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