Ok...there have been lots of smut updates as of late. This is what I've got to say.
First, there is a difference between lust and love. You can mistake lust for love, but there's no confusing love with lust. True, love can be coupled with lust, but there's still a definite difference.
Second, there is a difference between fucking and making love. You can fuck your girl/boyfriend, but you can't make love to a prostitute (unless you're dating them, which is weird). You have to be in love to make love.
Third, sex and spirituality can go together. I'm not talking about religion persay. In fact, thanks to a little thing called Catholicism, most religions (at least Christian-based) look down upon pre-martial sex, those hypocrites. Ironic that one of the most common sexual positions is called the missionary position, isn't it? If you head to the Far East, there's a much different opinion. Many people use sex in corrolation with spirituality. Heart of the Kama Sutra? That just goes to show how sex isn't taboo to them; in fact, to them it's natural and beautiful. Back here in Europe, I guess opinions are mixed, but I don't think many people connect sex with spirituality such as Manna and I do. For example, tantric sex. You all know what it is. Some people do it just to have a better orgasm (which, true, it does do). I think that by denying yourself what you long for (in this case, orgasm) it can somehow be spiritual. There's also this position called the "Ultimate Embrace". In short, the guy lays down, the girl is one top, and after penetration you both sit up and embrace. The oint of this sex position is basically to not move, not have sex; just hold each other, look deep into their eyes, kiss them tenderly, that sort of thing. By doing this you sort of transcend yourselves and reach this whole different place of spirituality, a nirvana if you will. There's this feeling of unity, of completion that I really can't describe. It's probably one of the most amazing and spiritual things I've ever experienced, and it's still just as amazing every time.
So, you people can run along and have all that hot dirty kinky sex you'd like. As for me, I'll stick with the spiritual love-making.