"You present me with a false duality, implying that one of your suggested positions must be my own.

[lilredemi]

Funny how reading through a year's worth of private posts will help steady one's mind. Really want to date again at some point. But by date, I do not mean getting jerked around, yet unfortunately one usually brings the other, unless you get very lucky and end up in something that usually passes for a healthy relationship.

Oh, LJ. How i've missed you. Mainly for all the things I can type here that I'd just rather not put on FB.